Markholland Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 (edited) heres my story I was in a relationship for 2 years and 8 months when i met my Ex she was 17 and i was 20 shes now nearly 20 im nearly 23 We spent nearly 3 years together we had some of the greatest times when i met her she never really had any friends or hobbies or a job she started getting into the hobbies i had and made new friends through me and my friends i did everything i could for her i helped and pushed her to get a job and license We traveled together she knew i was taking her on a cruise for our 3 year and was also taking her oversees for the first time i truly belive we had a very strong connection we hardly fought and when we did it was always over and forgotten about nearly straight away i did everything i possibly could i always took her out for dinner always bought her things always was there for her no matter what i was her best friend and she was my best friend i was apart of her family they loved me and always said i was the best thing that happen to her and she was a part of my family i could not think of a better relaitionship i made her happy and i could make her smile and laugh in a matter of seconds The last 3 weeks of the relationship i felt she no longer appreciated me and i was having doubts about continuing on so i kept my space worked more and had time to myself every time i saw her during that time things were fine i spoke to her about it how i felt and she never said anything then one day she turns around and says i dont want to do this anymore and left i tried getting her back with it will change i will change but got no where We had 1 last meet up and she told me its not me she just wants to experience life and do her own thing she said if anything changes down the track she would always let me know i hugged her and said enjoy your life look after yourself and i hope when you look at the ring i got you ,you think of the good memories we had i have NC since and its been 2 weeks and have been doing my own thing im lucky i have lot of good friends and i have already met another girl who i could see myself having a future with everyday is better and better and as the days go on the more i feel i dont want her back i feel as if she has made a rush decision its like she hasnt thought it through yet letting go of me and everything that come with me the hobbies friends traveling ect i feel she has made a horrible mystake and after time will regret it shes not the kind of girl who will go out and meet new people on her own she doesnt have many friends or really anything i know i was all she had in life im just very confused as to why she never spoke to me about it and tried to work it out :/ any opinions ? Edited December 26, 2013 by Markholland
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