Blastbeat Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 It's been two months now since I got dumped. So I saw her at my mates Christmas party yesterday. She wasn't there the whole night but she came up and hugged me and asked to touch my nose (what?) and offered me a drink of her vile cheap girly drink. I said nah I'm good, laughed at her and walked away. The next few hours before she left she kept trying to get my attention and talk to me, like playfully kicking me from behind etc. I kept avoiding her efforts to have a conversation with me and I caught her staring at me a few times and smiling and waving etc. I felt a sudden urge to message her and apologize for snobbing her so I came on here instead. The other part of me feels like a boss for not giving her the time of day with me. 2
TylerDurdenn Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 She was drunk, she didn't mean any of it.
Author Blastbeat Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 No, I know she wasn't intending to hook up with me. I'm just avoiding being friendly with her. Shes messaged me before on FB and I ignored her so I don't think it has to do with alcohol. I wouldn't take her back anyway.
lollipopspot Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 If she was a decent person, but dumped you because it just wasn't working out, and you're over her, I don't see the problem with being friendly or apologizing. I'm friendly with my exes, even when I wouldn't have preferred the break-up. Sometimes I get the impression that people think you need to be hostile to your exes. I think that's warranted only if they were really crappy people all-around.
Author Blastbeat Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 If she was a decent person, but dumped you because it just wasn't working out, and you're over her, I don't see the problem with being friendly or apologizing. I'm friendly with my exes, even when I wouldn't have preferred the break-up. Sometimes I get the impression that people think you need to be hostile to your exes. I think that's warranted only if they were really crappy people all-around. I'm not being hostile, just not friendly. Maybe I will be friendly with her when I feel completely moved on. But I still think about her so I don't want to have any feelings for her resurfacing. Like I said I'm not being hostile, never said a bad word about her or to her, ever. I have decided not to apologize. It will make her think I want something from her.
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