MrDrama Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Hey guys hows it going! Im doing alright this is the first time in 4 years I didn't spend Xmas with my ex. Today was hard even though we broke up in Feb its been 10 months but for some reason these last 2 week have been all about memories. Her breaking up with me changed my life for the better and hers went downhill. I landed my dream job instead of being comfortable where I was at when I was with her. But I just miss companionship I guess...Even her mother texted me Merry Xmas (I was really close with her family). Im still debating whether to send her a xmas text, I think in my head im creating a fake illusion that we will suddenly get back together or something after a few short texts. I hope everyone has a good rest of the x-mas.
notthathard Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 No dont send a text, it wont accomplish anything after 10 months. Have you been with someone else since you broke up? This is key to getting over someone if you are still in pain months later. If the last woman you has sex with was your ex then this is one thing that is holding you back.
Author MrDrama Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 No dont send a text, it wont accomplish anything after 10 months. Have you been with someone else since you broke up? This is key to getting over someone if you are still in pain months later. If the last woman you has sex with was your ex then this is one thing that is holding you back. I have not been with anyone else since the breakup, have not even kiss another girl yet. I would just say im more lonely then anything else, I miss the companionship of the relationship. Always having someone to hang out with,talk to and just someone else caring for you besides family. Since my Job I have completely used it as a distraction working almost 60-70 hours a week. Its great but I think its hindering me meeting someone. Im 23 and I would like to meet someone soon that I can have lasting future with before its time to settle down completely with a family.
notthathard Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 There you go, once you meet someone else you will forget about your ex easily. Dont put her on a pedestal in your head, she's not worth it. 60-70 hrs a week it too much man. You need to tone that down and get out there, if you have no time for bars/clubs try in normal places (cafe/supermarket/traveling while on transport). You would be surprised how many single women there are in the world waiting for you. Remember you were able to get your ex so there is nothing stopping you from getting another girl, just remember how you picked her up to start with. Normally my ex's have told me what got them attracted to me to start with, use this as a tool and be more like that in the future....ALWAYS not just when you meet.
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