Beatles4 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Another one of those people sat here on my own whom promised to myself that I find someone in 2013 but hasn't! For one reason or another it hasnt happened, **** happens or stuff gets in the way. Have asked a number of girls out but not one, not one date! I prob cant even chat up a girl to save my life! Really frustating when I talk to friends about girls, everyone says I should get to know them first(as friends) then it might go further, is this the way to go? I only say frustating as all thr girls I ever known only ever been friends with and stuck in the dreaded friend zone, so this didnt work where am I goin wrong? Then I see people around me getting girls number, goin on dates then becoming gf/bf) -------------------------------------- Seeing as its new years eve next week, I may go out, this girl at church invited me(aswell as other people) ive had my eye on her a while, you think I should try it on with her? But maybe she will ever see me as a friend how could I change this?? As its outside church this may make a difference? Its either now or never lol. thanks. Beatles4
ShyGuy5 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Dont force it to meet a deadline. Go with the flow and feel it out. Try to flirt a little without going over the top. Who knows maybe you can get a new years kiss. Things take time though. Don't give up because you could be one ask away from finding a girl, don't give up even if you don't hit the goal in 2013. Hope everything works out for you.
Author Beatles4 Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 Thanks for that, makes it clearer for me.
d0nnivain Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 I think you should go with this woman & the other group for NYE. Even if she isn't the one, you don't know who else you will meet that night. Back off a bit. Don't be so goal oriented about "getting with a girl". Be a nice guy. Be a gentleman. Be friendly.
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