DownNtOut Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 i thought about it i hope she thought about it i told myself next year will be different/better. merry christmas
ponchsox Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 The last thing on my mind today was my ex.
Never Again Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 I thought about wishing her Merry Christmas to be cordial, but decided against it. While I still love my ex dearly, I reached out last and left the door open for her to have platonic communication with me. I was experiencing and emotional setback at the time, so I mentioned going NC to a mutual friend and deactivated my FB. Honestly, I just miss my best friend at this point. I'd like to hear from her for no other reason than to know I could someday have that again, but life goes on. I may be moving on, but I still think positively of her and would like contact EVENTUALLY, but now isn't the time.
somedude81 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 5pm and no text. Odds are it won't be coming. Honestly I'm a little disappointed.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Nothing here, four months break-up. She is miserable though, it's her choice. Found out she slept with someone on Christmas Eve so she can **** off.
Frank13 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Nope, didn't get a text. Didn't expect to get a text Didn't want to get a text Wouldn't have meant anything if I got a text Wouldn't have responded to a text Not disappointed that I didn't get a text 1
innocentbutterfly Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 ha its funny that I still keep contact with my ex, occasionally as we agreed to try friendship, but he doesn't care about holidays and he's of other religion, doesn't celebrate christmas, didnt even care for my religion ever too as he wanted me to turn muslim, so yeah no any wishes even though I dont celebrate. just put up xmas tree. Just exchanged a few more words of convincing and him rejecting me for the 3rd time today and neither a day later when it's my birthday I don't expect he will remember or write even though I was stupid enough to send him a gift for his hoping to be good again a month after BU.
Armyguy123 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 YES! for the first time in over 2 months. She actually wanted to talk to me and was impressed I didn't reach out to her in 2 months. Honestly though. Its been two months of NC for me and she ruined it. I am now feeling that longing for her that I haven't felt in 2 months. I actually started tearing up for the first time in a while. Be glad you didn't hear from them. Honestly this is almost ruined my Christmas. This time of year was always special for us, as we spent time with each other and our families, then New Years, then my Birthday a few days after, I think that's what made her reach out to me. Well now its back to NC. I wouldn't doubt if she reaches out on New years or my Birthday. She has no idea that I'm still in love with her and I don't want to be.
PS.chicago Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 I heard from a woman I dated last summer. She texted me this morning - "Merry Christmas hun!! Hope you have a wonderful one!! :)" I responded "Merry Christmas to you too!" It didn't affect me one bit… needless to say I was never really into her. The woman I dated this past summer - short term LDR, who I REALLY wished to hear from never texted.. We did however have a quick game of 'like' tag on Facebook just now. I logged on and saw that she 'liked' a status I posted last night - she was on chat too. I returned the gesture and liked her status back. I was very tempted to shoot out a Merry Christmas msg, but I stopped myself. She logged off chat soon after. I haven't spoken a word/texted/emailed her since she broke off things the 1st weekend of October. So it would've been big deal if I did. I should also clarify that we met at the hospital where I work. She was on a 12 week internship. Sometimes LDR's start online and never materialize in person. Anyways, It's pretty sad to realize my relationship with her has been reduced to 'likes' on Facebook. Merry Christmas everyone!
Christ is Love Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 The ex mm did text me today to wish me a merry Christmas but I didn't respond . I know my worth and he or the situation that I was in doesn't measure up to what I really deserve . We all deserve the best and only the best, not second best. We deserve the entire meal and the dessert. Not the left over crumbs from the table . So wether the ex texted today for Christmas or never again, focus on your future and the blessings that lie ahead instead of those things and people in our past that didn't mean us any good anyway.! Be encouraged and let's keep it moving in the right direction. Take care everyone! 1
somedude81 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 No text. It's what I expected but not what I wanted. And no, I didn't contact her. I spent Christmas with my mom and grandparents, but I still felt absolutely alone. Being literally 5 minutes from her the entire day absolutely sucked. This has been one of, if not the worst Christmas in my entire life 1
blue113eb Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Hi, new here. Her and I got into an argument a few days ago. She said she didn't want to speak to me, so I was like, fine, NC. But a couple of girl friends said I should still wish her a Merry Christmas. This morning, I texted Merry Christmas and a few hours ago she said back, and I quote, "f*ck off". She then blocked me on Instagram and unfollowed me on Twitter promptly afterwards. Knowing her attitude, she's now my ex and that's the end of that. Merry Christmas indeed. I was floored at first, but now I find it a bit humorous.
Kalinka1 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I got one... just 'Merry Christmas' - and I am pretty sure it was a scheduled e-mail in that it came at 8.00am. And I know he's never up at that hour nor does anyone ever get e-mails sent with such an exact timestamp IDIOT.
HarleyBrown2 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I got a Christmas card through the post on the 17th, which was signed off with 'lots of love' , which I ignored! Then I got a text I Christmas Day at about 2300 hours, which again I ignored! We've been broken up for near 8 months and NC for most of it, apart from several breadcrumbs from her along the way! It set me back a bit, but I'm in a good place now, and buzzing for 2014, which I'm gonna fill with epic times
Hoosfoos Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Yes, I got a text that consisted of some well-meaning breadcrumbs that just ended up making me feel ****tier.
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