Sparky9 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Mine contacted me because of kids..but did throw in a merry Christmas text. I did not reciprocate.
belinda22 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nothing here. Didn't expect it tho. He only cares about himself. I did get a nice card from his mom saying she misses me and thinks of me everyday. Haha pretty sad that she misses me and he doesn't. For everyone who stayed no contact good job! I'm at 2 weeks today. 1
TylerDurdenn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I text her saying today has been difficult She text back saying she's had a horrible christmas as she has been alone. I didn't text back. 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I text her saying today has been difficult She text back saying she's had a horrible christmas as she has been alone. I didn't text back. Absolute terrible idea. DONT TEXT HER!! Enjoy the day.
pera44 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nope, no msg from her here. She bu with me exactly 2 months ago today and it has been NC since. Was tempted to text just to wish her well but what's the point. See my previous post if you're curious to read what happened, in the end I should not be the one chasing when she's the one who bu with me out of the blue. Good job to all of you who have hung in there!! You all give me perspective and hope in moving forward. Merry Christmas and God bless!!
Haydn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted in wrong thread before. My ex texted to one of my friends 1 hour ago. (I blocked her long ago) Petra, Please wish Haydn and E (My daughter) a happy Christmas. I hope you and him are happy together! (no i am not with Petra) But my ex always thought i was shagging every woman i knew. No trust even after dumping me. __________________ Oh, you've got green eyes Oh, you've got blue eyes Oh, you've got grey eyes. And I've never seen anyone quite like you before. No, I've never met anyone quite like you before. (Temptation, New Order) 2
tem7074 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Just got my merry christmas text from her. Didn't think she would send one. Not sure about replying. We had a falling out recently where she deleted me off facebook. Funny how that makes things seem kind of final.
Zoe Lilith Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted in wrong thread before. My ex texted to one of my friends 1 hour ago. (I blocked her long ago) Petra, Please wish Haydn and E (My daughter) a happy Christmas. I hope you and him are happy together! (no i am not with Petra) But my ex always thought i was shagging every woman i knew. No trust even after dumping me. __________________ Oh, you've got green eyes Oh, you've got blue eyes Oh, you've got grey eyes. And I've never seen anyone quite like you before. No, I've never met anyone quite like you before. (Temptation, New Order) Your ex sounds really insecure.
lostinloveless Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Yes I got one. It was a picture of a xms card written 2 both of us from my ex's sister (she recently died from cancer & wrote them all out before she went) which was pretty saddening! I simply replied with thank u 4 sharing as he knew I thought a lot of her.....
Haydn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Zoe, this was us for 3 years. I was constantly questioned about everything. When i say everything. I mean, `Why are you wearing a nice shirt, who are you meeting?` etc.....It was Paranonia all the way. I think and believe that it helps her to believe i was a cheat, but i was not. Never but she is like that. Glad i am out of it. Happy xmas! Got my daughter a pony. (My little pony)
margot13 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 No idea, to be honest I purposely turned off my phone so that I wouldn't know if he did or not. Did not want to waste my day dwelling on it, if he did or if he didn't. Will face it tomorrow when I turn it back on :-) 1
Mondmellonw Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 No idea, to be honest I purposely turned off my phone so that I wouldn't know if he did or not. Did not want to waste my day dwelling on it, if he did or if he didn't. Will face it tomorrow when I turn it back on :-) Great idea, I did the same. But I'm the dumper, so I do not expect anything really, even when I asked him to meet (wanted him back) ugh, anyways. Happy holidays for all! 1
margot13 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Great idea, I did the same. But I'm the dumper, so I do not expect anything really, even when I asked him to meet (wanted him back) ugh, anyways. Happy holidays for all! I think I was the dumper too (but felt I had no choice due to behaviour). Either way was tired of driving myself into a pyscho woman worthy of a hitchock film! Merry Xmas to all and my advice turn of the phone or whatsapp or sms or all. Deal with it on another day. 1
Zoe Lilith Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Zoe, this was us for 3 years. I was constantly questioned about everything. When i say everything. I mean, `Why are you wearing a nice shirt, who are you meeting?` etc.....It was Paranonia all the way. I think and believe that it helps her to believe i was a cheat, but i was not. Never but she is like that. Glad i am out of it. Happy xmas! Got my daughter a pony. (My little pony) How did you manage to put up with that for 3 years?..wow..at least it's over now. You have something that no woman can compare to - the honest and unconditional love of your little daughter ...Merry Christmas! 1
Haydn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Zoe i would buy you a drink if you lived nearby. X.
Zoe Lilith Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Zoe i would buy you a drink if you lived nearby. X. You just made me blush 2
TylerDurdenn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Zoe i would buy you a drink if you lived nearby. X. Oi i live nearby, where's my drink? 1
Haydn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Tyler you old rascal! Here until Jan..........
TylerDurdenn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Tyler you old rascal! Here until Jan.......... Any plans for NYE?
Haydn Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Pm`d you as not to hijack the thread Any plans for NYE? 1
Antares Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Hey LS, long time no see. Spending my Xmas pretty much all myself and wondered on here for the first time in months. In response to the OP: Nope, mine did not. It's been 6 months since the break up and I'm doing ok, light dating occasionally etc, and doing good - but I still do think about her. I was half wondering if she was going to. Over the summer, after 2 months BU and NC she reached out to me after a close family member of hers passed away. She was sad, but as we got to talking she mentioned how she was really nervous contacting me. Saying she wanted to for a long while, thought about me all the time, but didn't want to ruin my day. She finally decided to go for it when the death occurred and she knew I was on vacation, and felt like there was no way I'd be mad. We had a good chat in August but she still felt like it was best to go our separate ways. Since this is the first xmas w/o her relative I'm sure it's a tough one for her. Part of me thought to reach out to her, because I do genuinely care for her. But...it's best that I don't. Hope you're all having a good Holiday LS. 1
Wings Of Love Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Not a word. I kept telling myself he wouldn't but there was that small part of me that had hope... I guess this proves he doesn't care any more. And to be quite honest, I'm not sure it would feel good even if he DID message me. Maybe it's just a blessing in disguise.
LoveShook Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 -Dumpee here -10+ months -She has a new boyfriend for those 10+ months She sent me a Merry Christmas wishing me a great day text this morning. Wont be responding.
mirage12 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Mine just texted me a "Merry Christmas!!!" I had deleted her number before in case I couldn't resist the urge to initiate first. Now I'm kind of at a loss and don't know what to say or how to respond. I'm thinking of sending a "Thanks (her name), Merry Christmas to you too. Hope you're having a nice day with your family". It's weird cuz I was already kind of thinking about her today and getting her text actually made me feel worse :/
organizedchaos Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Mine just texted me a "Merry Christmas!!!" I had deleted her number before in case I couldn't resist the urge to initiate first. Now I'm kind of at a loss and don't know what to say or how to respond. I'm thinking of sending a "Thanks (her name), Merry Christmas to you too. Hope you're having a nice day with your family". It's weird cuz I was already kind of thinking about her today and getting her text actually made me feel worse :/ Its ok to respond but id keep it emotionless. Just say "you too" I just responded "merry Christmas"
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