aelvidge Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Just curious if anyone has heard from their ex today? Any happy Christmas messages or anything? My ex text me today and we have been speaking a little bit, bread crumbs I guess....
David87 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Just curious if anyone has heard from their ex today? Any happy Christmas messages or anything? My ex text me today and we have been speaking a little bit, bread crumbs I guess.... Nothing, I'm disappointed to.
FortunateSon Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nothing. I didn't expect to, but still a bit disappointing. This will hopefully help to kill the small amount of remaining hope.
faithfully Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Yep was quite suprised when he msg me merry xmas hope u have a good day to be honest. I did reply same to u and that was it, just a normal day, nothing special. When u least expect it is when they get in touch
somedude81 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nope, nothing from her. I'd be surprised if she reaches out
LostConfused123 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nothing. I didn't expect to, but still a bit disappointing. This will hopefully help to kill the small amount of remaining hope. Me too. I'm a little mad at myself for having a small twinge of disappointment. 1
Softie Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nope nothing but it would just upset me and I think he knows that plus I'm sure he'll be working.
soccerrprp Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 You are all better off not getting anything from your exes. Really, unless you're the dumpee and hoping to get back, or have forgotten why you're not together now, you don't want an ex giving you breadcrumbs....or empty holiday wishes. 4
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Not a dicky bird lol I do kinda hope he's disappointed tho !! lol x
somedude81 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 You are all better off not getting anything from your exes. Really, unless you're the dumpee and hoping to get back, or have forgotten why you're not together now, you don't want an ex giving you breadcrumbs....or empty holiday wishes. I think a lot of us are dumpees hoping to get back with their ex.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Quit wondering/worrrying about it and go enjoy the holiday!! Sitting around wondering why they haven't thrown you a sympathy bone is wasting time. Go around and enjoy the day 6
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I think a lot of us are dumpees hoping to get back with their ex. I'm not but I would love him to come back just for the satisfaction ! lol x
realfriends Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I did. Got a very generic text however compared to the one from Thanksgiving so it made it even easier to stay in NC. People are right, its probably better that they didnt send anything than giving breadcrumbs like I received because it just got me a little upset for a minute until I snapped out of it. Enjoy your Christmas with those who love you and are there for you right now.
kindofsad Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 No, I thought I might but probably best in the long run not to hear from her. Ridiculous as it sounds it has been hard not to text a message, I even bought a card but didn't write it.
billyjotomas Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Nope, no contact at all.. Slightly disappointing Sorry to hear brother, i just posted my post on the forum.....whats your story?
billyjotomas Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Yep was quite suprised when he msg me merry xmas hope u have a good day to be honest. I did reply same to u and that was it, just a normal day, nothing special. When u least expect it is when they get in touch Ah great a female perspective i though it was mainly men on here...if u could read my post i did it would be great to get a girls perspective on it all. I got msg from my ex (but yeah like we only split 3 days ago)
Zoe Lilith Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I wouldn't know, since I've changed my number and blocked his email... Happy Holidays! 7
billyjotomas Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I wouldn't know, since I've changed my number and blocked his email... Happy Holidays! How long you been split up?
Author aelvidge Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 It's like as soon as you start moving on they get in contact and set you back again! 1
Zoe Lilith Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 How long you been split up? 4 months ago..the break up has been really messy (I made the mistake of "begging" and "wanting closure")...I couldn't be happier being FREE again, away from all the lies and all that amazing acting.. 3
rogersm Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Got a text this morning. Just deleted her number this weekend so annoying. Wish she didnt send me anything. Waited 3 hours...Sent her merry christmas and then deleted the texts from my phone. Back to not talking 1
billyjotomas Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 On again off again for 6 years... Her therapist told her to dump me. I had to go NC because she was contacting me when she felt like it and threatening to call the cops when I wanted to talk to her.. Really messed up situation damn very similar to mine basically other people saying crap about you. If she threatened to call cops....then what kind of woman is she, not worth i have tons of friends who gf or wives are so nice to them. In a way i wish my ex was like this but she isnt, she never even sworn at me lol.
billyjotomas Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 4 months ago..the break up has been really messy (I made the mistake of "begging" and "wanting closure")...I couldn't be happier being FREE again, away from all the lies and all that amazing acting.. well done xx
organizedchaos Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Yep, just got a funny Christmas picture. Its her way. 5 months bu, NC from me since a week before thanksgiving, blocked her online. she bu with me. She also sent a happy thanksgiving text and I just responded the same. No further communication until today. I was cordial and simply responded back "Merry Christmas" and nothing further. Don't really care for any further communication. Just met someone and seems like there is potential there! 2
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