needed some (struggling)

[aBrokenHeart]

hi everyone ,

 

recently 4 mth ago i met this girl which is 8 years younger then me.(i'm 29)

eventually after one month we decided to meet up and end up begin couple .(yup its fast but we chat almost every min once we woke up)

 

before meeting her up i did ask her was she single and which previously she have a 4 years relationship with her high school lover which she he said yes they break off by mutual and true they never have relationship status on facebook when i first knew her , she said after both came to singapore alot of stuff changed and feeling eventually fade but still friend after break up .as feeling actually no longer strong after they came to Singapore to study.. so since she is single i will continue woo-ing on her

 

when we are in relationship , she never bother to remove her ex pic until i asked .

i asked her should we list on facebook relationship , she say it was too soon as timing is everything which in the end she agreed to list.

 

 

thing started getting bad when 26 Oct i found out she actually still contacting her ex and discussing about meeting. i get really fuming and get harsh on words and sort. but she said she only meeting him because their mutual friend asked to pass a present to her on her birthday, thing get really worse and i call for a break off but eventually in the night she was crying about she know is her mistake to meet but it just friend. and she did msg her ex ask him not to contact and her ex agree as long as she is not with some badass.

 

thing started started to get better till recently found out she been blocking her close friend and mutual friend (by creating a group total of 202 members) from viewing her relationship status , when i look at it the group has already been removed but she just though the list of friend will be remove too . she explained yet again saying it was too fast to announce . the official breaking off is end of aug (we started dating on the 14 sept) she just tell me i dont understand timing is everything

i really got so upset and we did quarrel over text message and lie i actually cheated on her twice last month , she get so upset and she doesnt mind being together even i cheated

 

but end up i told her i just lie to her and she said its cruel to do so . till recently i confess her to delete all of her ex stuff and gift which is agree and say it better to delete the old than to upset u . but yesterday when ic heck through her drop-box and phone back up i found out 3 undeleted photo of a screenshot of instagram pic and a picture of they actually meet up on the 7th sept. isnt they already break off at the end of aug? , i confess to her again

why u took a screenshot on 4th Nov when i already found out u are in contact with him on the 28oct?

 

she say she got no idea why she screenshot as she wouldn't need because it was upload by her she will have the photo which i accept that reason. she said it impossible to remove all the tag and so as the relationship is four years old yes they used to post in Facebook alot in the beginning she actually voice out to recreate but i rejected as her teen timeline is there so i doesn't really want her to delete. but now i ask her to recreate afresh one , she agree too. after i found out she actually hide our relationship status straightaway she post some nice msg on facebook like she only wanted me and wanna marry and have a future with me and so. she is in paris love love bridge and she sent me the lock of our name there . she said she change alot after her past rs and doesnt like to post much in facebook as compared to what she used to be from 2009-2012.she will always try her way not to break off . even when she is in paris , she is texing me whenever she can or brought hotel wifi and airport wifi .

 

my air ticket is brought 1 months back . so during her pairs trip we quarrel and i ask her do you think its ok for me to meet her parents . she said better not as thing get so worse if i break down at her house both will be dead and reputation will be gone but after 2 days or conflict and texing and explanation thing get better and confirmed i am flying to australia to meet her family .if she is not certain of this relationship do u think she will wanted me to meet up her parents?

 

can someone englighten me what is my girlfriend thinking ? thanks . i am feeling so confuse

Edited December 25, 2013 by aBrokenHeart

[iworthmore]

man.

1. u might be just a rebound.

2. 8 years difference in age. u both see things from different perspective.

3. ur being insecure and needy.

4. 21 yo still a very young and soon the GIGS will hit her.(maybe)

5. looks like she lies. on the other hand ur pushing her away with ur behaviour.

6. with 21 year old u must just have fun. laugh and have great night. in such age they not ready for commitment.no need to meet her parents if she doesn't want to.

best thing you can do is tell her you need time a part for both of you. tell her ur giving her space to think of what she really wants and if she can afford her part of this RS. but i honestly think this RS not gonna work for you.

in order to make her forget her ex she must be attracted to you. being pushy will do the opposite. ur right abt some things u asked her. but if you ignore that and be confident that will increase the chances that she gonna fall for u deeply.

good luck

[Reels]

You can do it, you must meet her parents, tell her everything. So that you would know yourself that you missed no chance.