freetolove Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Okay, I don't know what to do, I've been dating my guy for about a month and things are going great. Suddenly I meet his younger brother who's taller and hotter with just about the same personality as him and they live together! I'm really uncomfortable around the brother because I'm extremely attracted to him. Obviously I respect what I have with my guy but I AM SO UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
ShyGuy5 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I think you should move on. If you're this attracted to someone else, then it's not fair to the person you are dating to string him along when you want something else. Maybe this lust will subside though, I don't know. 3
winny Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 How would u feel if u know your bf is more attracted to your sister than u??? Don't play with his emotions. U obviously do not like him a lot. 3
Author freetolove Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 I adore my guy, I don't know the brother at all so it's all physical attraction. It's just weird when their mannerisms are the same too.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 You can't adore him that much if you are lusting over his brother of all people. 2
Author freetolove Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 yes, i can, his brother looks like him.
winny Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 How can u b physically attracted to your boyfriend's brother??? It's weird....
Author freetolove Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 OMG, I just said THEY LOOK AND ACT ALIKE. How can u b physically attracted to your boyfriend's brother??? It's weird....
gaius Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Duh, you sneak into the younger brothers room and blow him after your boyfriend has gone to bed. If you get caught can always say they look and act alike so you thought the younger was the older.
dreamingoftigers Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I adore my guy, I don't know the brother at all so it's all physical attraction. It's just weird when their mannerisms are the same too. So every time someone "hotter" comes along, you toss out a relationship with a bf. Well, get tossing. And keep doing that. Until you learn how important other people are and how destructive that attitude is. How is this post even a real question: I have a boyfriend, I'm attracted to him. He has a brother, who if he's any kind of brother wouldn't touch me with a ten foot pole, I SAW his brother. I liked what a SAW. What do I do? You figure out what your relationship is worth to you for someone you haven't even really spoken to. Your BF deserves better. 4
down2earth Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Okay, I don't know what to do, I've been dating my guy for about a month and things are going great. Suddenly I meet his younger brother who's taller and hotter with just about the same personality as him and they live together! I'm really uncomfortable around the brother because I'm extremely attracted to him. Obviously I respect what I have with my guy but I AM SO UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO?? Stay away, dont tamper with something like this. This is how brothers kill brothers, my mom warned me about things like this. You'll always be attracted to others in life you need to know never to cross the line. Don't be so thirsty. 1
Author freetolove Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 Did you actually read my question?? I didn't say I wanted to do something. I said I'm physically attracted to him (it's a NATURAL reaction not that I am seeking it out). It's like telling a guy to never ever look at another girl again and think she's hot. I adore my partner and want to make things work. His brother is a bit of a distraction when he comes and goes because they live together. So every time someone "hotter" comes along, you toss out a relationship with a bf. Well, get tossing. And keep doing that. Until you learn how important other people are and how destructive that attitude is. How is this post even a real question: I have a boyfriend, I'm attracted to him. He has a brother, who if he's any kind of brother wouldn't touch me with a ten foot pole, I SAW his brother. I liked what a SAW. What do I do? You figure out what your relationship is worth to you for someone you haven't even really spoken to. Your BF deserves better.
dreamingoftigers Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Certainly not the overall tone of your OP.
harrybrown Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Break up with your SO and stay away from both brothers. Do not cheat on your SO and especially with his brother. If you do cheat on your SO with his brother, he will never get over it. And you prefer his brother over him. Nice. How would you like it if he was checking out your sister and wishing he was with her?
ShyGuy5 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Here is where you went wrong. It is one thing to see a girl on the street and say she's hot. That is as far as it goes, there is no attraction just a notice of her physical appearance. It is another thing to start getting all hot and bothered because his brother walks into the room because you feel attracted to him attaching a personality to him above and beyond the simple lust. Had you said he was hot and left it at that would be one thing, but when you said you were attracted to him, that is where you blew it IMO. 2
rocketman122 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Im sure you fantasized about a DP, right? haha 3
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 crush on younger brother WHAT SHOULD I DO?? You should... (pick thread titles which more clearly reflect the subject on which you want to write) 4
Eggplant Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 You should... (pick thread titles which more clearly reflect the subject on which you want to write)Yes ... this came across wrong from the title. 1
ae86drift Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 yea how do you feel if your bf think your sis is way hotter than you? btw you probably desperate for guys
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