MrJay10 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 (edited) So I've been recently talking to this really cute girl (that I happen to work with) who also is really into me. She actually gave me her number without me even asking, and now every time I go into work we flirt like crazy. I also asked her if she wanted to hang out some time and she said she wanted to, blah blah blah. But the weird thing is she only texts me back when she's at work. Not when she's at home. I don't know, I'm not the type to be paranoid and I give people their space, but I just find it kind of odd. She might just not be much of a texter, who knows. (even though she gave me an impression she likes to text, but either way it's no biggie) But I really really like her so far, just don't know what this distance is about when we're not at work. Also found out her dad abuses her. (She had a huge red mark on her neck one day and told me her dad choked her) I don't know if this has anything to do with it, and she told me she doesn't live with them and that she lives with her roomate (which I'm also worried might be her ex-bf, even though she told me she just broke up) Idk it all just feels weird. If it actually is her bf she lives with then I def won't get involved. I'm not the type to play games like that. But again, I'm not trying to make any assumptions, I just feel weird about it all. Any theories? Edited December 25, 2013 by MrJay10
cobeflats Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 (edited) I'd just ask her why she doesn't text when not at work. It's straightforward and asking, but not prying any further, should give you your answer. If she gives you some answer that doesn't feel like it adds up in your head....I wouldn't quiz her on it, but simply would follow your instincts and decide accordingly. Plus, there's no fire drill...so you can take your time sorting it all out internally once you have your initial feedback from her. Edited December 25, 2013 by cobeflats
Author MrJay10 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 (edited) yeah, that's what I'm thinking too. Anyone else have any input? lol Edited December 25, 2013 by MrJay10
ExpatInItaly Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 My first thought is that she's not quite broken-up with her ex. You say that you suspect they live together? That is the most likely reason, from my perspective. She probably doesn't want him asking who she's texting.
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