aaron11892 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Just curious if any of you guys have had your ex contact you wishing you a happy Christmas. Mine hasn't, didn't expect her to and I have no plans to contact her either. Anyone?
rosedl Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Not contacting and I know he won't contact me.
sarbunoemi Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 I did not receive because I blocked him on Facebook and changed my number. Dunno if he'd contact me on Christmas Eve on my old number but, who cares....
FortunateSon Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Mine contacted me at the beginning of the month to share a "happy memory". It then turned into her wanting to wish my son a happy birthday, which was a few days later, and also an early merry Christmas. I don't anticipate hearing from her ever again.
David87 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Just curious if any of you guys have had your ex contact you wishing you a happy Christmas. Mine hasn't, didn't expect her to and I have no plans to contact her either. Anyone? No text no nothing, didn't expect it anyway.
LoveShook Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I have an ex text me every couple of days this month saying she was missing our Christmases, it was really hard for her this time of the year, she was thinking about me, etc. This is while shes in a new relationship since she ended it 10+ months ago. She sent a text a week and half ago saying to think of her while watching this certain tv show. No text since. Her boyfriend may have caught her or maybe she realized she was stringing me along and stopped. Ive had birthday, anniversary, Thanksgiving, texts from her. I dont know if she will text me tomorrow or tonight. I wont be texting her.
devastated777 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Hell to the no. Couldn't care less. Jerk still has my heart. Need to get it back. Will not wish him a Merry Christmas at all. Why???
HarleyBrown2 Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I got a card through the post to me and my family, wishing me a merry Christmas and happy new year, signed off with 'lots of love xxxxx' I ignored her... Total game player, I've not got time for that, onwards and up
Shaine Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Mine did. Morning of 24th. The monster texted me asking for his things back. Him: just tell me if you're still planning on returning my things or not so im not waiting. Me: address? Him: i already told you before. And i hope you have computed how much you'll pay me back. (Adress) Me:i'll deposit next year. What acct#. Him: you already have the details. Me: i wont ask if i have it Him: if you already forget it, i'll just tell you next time when you are about to deposit. Me: i wont delete your details this time. Just tell me your acct # and i'll deposit next yr Him: when you're about to deposit. I hope you return my things asap and my money asap Me: what acct #?? I'll try to deposit this year Him: do you now know how much? Me: are you okay with $$(amt more than i owe him) Him: i asked if you have already computed it and now you're asking me if im okay with that when i dont know how much Me: acct#? Him: when you're about to deposit so that i'll know Me: just tell me what it is so we're done. I'll send you the deposit slip Him: no bank today. I'll tell you when you're about to make the deposit to be sure so im not waiting for nothing Me: tell me next year. I wont contact you. Your choice Him: hahahaha..just message me when you're ready to deposit and dont make yourself important. You offered to pay me and return my things. I just dont want to wait for nothing Me: just dont wait for it. You'll know eventually coz i will send you the deposit slip. You're making this complicated. I can sense you are still angry. Lol. We each have our own lovelifes now so pls dont make this overcomplicated. If you dont want to send your bank details, then so be it. Him: i dont care about your lovelife! Just the things and money you promised to return to me. And it's normal to wait Me: you're so difficult Him: (acct#) be sure you deposit this time and you send my things. Haha.. Im not difficult. I just dont trust you. Me: wow you're such a spiteful person. Lol. I changed my mind. Your things? Get em here or at (friends place) Him: you're saying im difficult. Hahahaha..you just dont want to return my things that why you havent sent it to me. You should have told me then Me: suuurre. I'll give it to *friend. Get it from them Him: ewww you really are worthless Me: hahaha.. Just looj at yourself first so you'll know who is ewww! Hahaha Him: just pay me asap and send my things asap so we're done. Haha.. It's your dignity inline. Im just waiting here and you're the one who has forgotten. Bye His things are ipad and beats. He actually GAVE me the ipad, and the money, he GAVE that to me as well. We a Were arguing before coz i dont want to take his ipad he got angry he said why dont i appreciate what he gives me. When we broke up i told him i will return his things and the money he has spent me once he return from working abroad. I was employing NC that's why i was waiting for him to contact me to ask for his things. I never thought he would be such a monster to treat me like this. I know he got the better of me. I should hve maintained a coolhead. I was dump! No cheating or abuse involved. He is such an immature evil ugly fat bald person! I hate him!
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 Mine did. Morning of 24th. The monster texted me asking for his things back. Him: just tell me if you're still planning on returning my things or not so im not waiting. Me: address? Him: i already told you before. And i hope you have computed how much you'll pay me back. (Adress) Me:i'll deposit next year. What acct#. Him: you already have the details. Me: i wont ask if i have it Him: if you already forget it, i'll just tell you next time when you are about to deposit. Me: i wont delete your details this time. Just tell me your acct # and i'll deposit next yr Him: when you're about to deposit. I hope you return my things asap and my money asap Me: what acct #?? I'll try to deposit this year Him: do you now know how much? Me: are you okay with $$(amt more than i owe him) Him: i asked if you have already computed it and now you're asking me if im okay with that when i dont know how much Me: acct#? Him: when you're about to deposit so that i'll know Me: just tell me what it is so we're done. I'll send you the deposit slip Him: no bank today. I'll tell you when you're about to make the deposit to be sure so im not waiting for nothing Me: tell me next year. I wont contact you. Your choice Him: hahahaha..just message me when you're ready to deposit and dont make yourself important. You offered to pay me and return my things. I just dont want to wait for nothing Me: just dont wait for it. You'll know eventually coz i will send you the deposit slip. You're making this complicated. I can sense you are still angry. Lol. We each have our own lovelifes now so pls dont make this overcomplicated. If you dont want to send your bank details, then so be it. Him: i dont care about your lovelife! Just the things and money you promised to return to me. And it's normal to wait Me: you're so difficult Him: (acct#) be sure you deposit this time and you send my things. Haha.. Im not difficult. I just dont trust you. Me: wow you're such a spiteful person. Lol. I changed my mind. Your things? Get em here or at (friends place) Him: you're saying im difficult. Hahahaha..you just dont want to return my things that why you havent sent it to me. You should have told me then Me: suuurre. I'll give it to *friend. Get it from them Him: ewww you really are worthless Me: hahaha.. Just looj at yourself first so you'll know who is ewww! Hahaha Him: just pay me asap and send my things asap so we're done. Haha.. It's your dignity inline. Im just waiting here and you're the one who has forgotten. Bye His things are ipad and beats. He actually GAVE me the ipad, and the money, he GAVE that to me as well. We a Were arguing before coz i dont want to take his ipad he got angry he said why dont i appreciate what he gives me. When we broke up i told him i will return his things and the money he has spent me once he return from working abroad. I was employing NC that's why i was waiting for him to contact me to ask for his things. I never thought he would be such a monster to treat me like this. I know he got the better of me. I should hve maintained a coolhead. I was dump! No cheating or abuse involved. He is such an immature evil ugly fat bald person! I hate him! WOW what a d**k. I honestly dont blame you for what you did. If that is the exact text for text, then he needs a swift kick in the balls. I would smash the crap out of the Ipad and Beats. Sorry that happened to you. Dodged a bullet IMO
Shaine Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 I dodged a missile. I could have handled that conversation better. I shouldnt have said anything about love life. Oh well.. It's done. 1
headinthecloud Posted December 25, 2013 Posted December 25, 2013 You deserve better. He's immature and spiteful. Please cut him out of your life once and for all. Just reading the exchange makes me cringe. Onwards and upwards. Merry Christmas.
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