It's here, now what?

[Mr me to]

So it's Christmas Eve... sat alone not sure what to do with myself. Just thinking about this time last year inspired me to write her a big long text about how we should be sharing a bottle of wine snuggled up with kids ect, didn't send it deleted it and have deleted her number off my phone. Sent her about five texts already today, ranged from calling her a sociopath to a part time mother... I'm just so angry and out of control, funny thing is she been replying to them so was tempted to apologise and see if I got a response. Decided against it everything I said I have felt at some point so will just leave it at that. I think a further rejection would send me over the edge...

 

Anyway what are everyone's plans ? How are you coping first Christmas Eve post break up ? I need a distraction this bottle of JD is looking tempting !!!

Edited December 24, 2013 by Mr me to

[Elias33]

Practice on making yourself happy. Right now you are waiting for her or anyone else to do so. Being alone should be seen as a time to reflect and improve yourself. You will built up your armor for the road ahead. There is a time after Christmas, as life will go on. I am at this point myself, and have been before, and now I don't see this Christmas as a must be with someone to be happy kind of deal. I am sure you have it in you, as I once was at the same point. Good luck to you sir. Merry Christmas.

[JDPT]

Ease up my friend the clock ticks for all of us. Surround yourself with good people family and friends who have been there for you. I would hold off on the bottle until you feel somewhat stable. We all like to indulge, however, this only exacerbates our current state. Be grateful for the many things you have. Think about the special moments you spent with your kids last week (if i'm not mistaken) don't think about your ex just think about your kids. You and your kids are all that matter from this point forward.

[2fargone]

I'm playing some guitar, or playing a game. I'm a lone wolf, I don't need to be around people. To me it's a day like any other (except for less people being online to play a game with).

[Yasuandio]

Give up your cell to a friend. U don't need it tonight - think of this as just another typical 24 hours passing, and forget. If u hit the JD, you're sure to Drunk-Dial or Drunk-Text, and will regret it later.

 

What you've done sober doesn't sound so great either. You gotta get that cell outta you possession now - car keys too. That's it, period. Call someone to pick up the stuff until day after tomorrow, and get some movies to watch with your JD. Yas

[TylerDurdenn]

Very bored, I know she is out partying tonight which makes it worse!

[HorseLuck]

Christmas has never been a big deal at my place. The family doesn't get together. In that sense it usually sucks, but I'm also fairly use to it.

 

I don't have any plans but actually feel at ease about it, when I would usually stress out. Just woke up from a nap and..have a mini pizza pie waiting for a kiss. Tomorrow I will wake up and work out, possibly push myself to head out and do something.

 

Perhaps this article might help you:

It?s JUST Christmas/The Holidays ? Stay off the Relationship/Drama Crack | Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue

[mikejensen3355]

So it's Christmas Eve... sat alone not sure what to do with myself. Just thinking about this time last year inspired me to write her a big long text about how we should be sharing a bottle of wine snuggled up with kids ect, didn't send it deleted it and have deleted her number off my phone. Sent her about five texts already today, ranged from calling her a sociopath to a part time mother... I'm just so angry and out of control, funny thing is she been replying to them so was tempted to apologise and see if I got a response. Decided against it everything I said I have felt at some point so will just leave it at that. I think a further rejection would send me over the edge...

 

Anyway what are everyone's plans ? How are you coping first Christmas Eve post break up ? I need a distraction this bottle of JD is looking tempting !!!

 

Just be happy you have your kids. I loved my ex's kids and ill never see them again. I would give anything to have them back.

[Zoe Lilith]

so far so good...I had the fireplace on, read a book, ate like 100 tons of cake and watched some christmas movies. My phone was off, when I switchted back on, there were loads of messages from dear friends. This is the first time that I am spending my holidays like this....I have to admit, I love it! Feeling great.