lauri Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 So I decided to confront her because I'm tired of her emotional games. I ask her when did she stopped loving me and she have the guts to look me straight in the eyes and tell me she never stopped but yet she won't leave him for me. She even says she plan on spending the night at his place. What the f*ck is that??? How can somebody fill you with so much hope one day and destroyed you the next day? Then I told her that I refused to be her backup plan and at least now I know where I stand in her eyes. I feel somewhat relieve knowing that there is NO MORE hope with her anymore. I don't even feel anything anymore. I'll tell you why - she is turned off by you. She finds it unattractive how you are so easy, so weak and so available. It hurts to hear this, but it is the truth. She has no respect for you because you are willing to sit around and listen to her BS while shes out screwing around with another guy. Please, when she messages you again respond and say "I'm sorry, who is this?", hurt her ego and delete her number. She does not deserve your time of day...man I have been seeing other girls but I would never ever tell my ex (even though she hurt me) because I think its classless. It is even more classless that she is telling you she is sleeping over at this losers house when she knows you still want her. 1
Author brokeNlost Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 Once you let go of hope is when you start making true progress. yes this is the first time in months that i feel my emotional burden fading away.
Author brokeNlost Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 I'll tell you why - she is turned off by you. She finds it unattractive how you are so easy, so weak and so available. It hurts to hear this, but it is the truth. She has no respect for you because you are willing to sit around and listen to her BS while shes out screwing around with another guy. Please, when she messages you again respond and say "I'm sorry, who is this?", hurt her ego and delete her number. She does not deserve your time of day...man I have been seeing other girls but I would never ever tell my ex (even though she hurt me) because I think its classless. It is even more classless that she is telling you she is sleeping over at this losers house when she knows you still want her. Thanks, I completely agree with you that she got no class. She even tried to tell me that since my birthday is coming up, she wanna take me out. WTF?? I'm so tired of this crazy ass girl
lauri Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Thanks, I completely agree with you that she got no class. She even tried to tell me that since my birthday is coming up, she wanna take me out. WTF?? I'm so tired of this crazy ass girl Promise me you will delete her number and if she messages you in a week or so respond "Sorry, who is this?" and completely ignore her. This b**ch doesn't deserve the satisfaction / ego boost having you around. I'm actually pissed off.
chris21422 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Just don't respond and act like she doesn't exist. Disappear from her life and block her from everything.. trust me man.
lauri Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Just don't respond and act like she doesn't exist. Disappear from her life and block her from everything.. trust me man. You are right - I just want to hurt this girls ego but that is also stooping to a low level. I just can't stand when someone would do this to someone. Just delete her number and ignore her.
Author brokeNlost Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 I will now. I have no reason to hold on anymore
Zoe Lilith Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 So I decided to confront her because I'm tired of her emotional games. I ask her when did she stopped loving me and she have the guts to look me straight in the eyes and tell me she never stopped but yet she won't leave him for me. She even says she plan on spending the night at his place. What the f*ck is that??? How can somebody fill you with so much hope one day and destroyed you the next day? Then I told her that I refused to be her backup plan and at least now I know where I stand in her eyes. I feel somewhat relieve knowing that there is NO MORE hope with her anymore. I don't even feel anything anymore. strange but true...I was on the ride of an emotional roller coaster, thinking, how the f**** am I ever going to be able to move on..but then I received an email from ex (I don't even want to say "my"), that changed everything. I am grateful for that nasty email he's sent by "accident" . It helped me realize who he really was...I have no feelings for that person any more. I saw new photos of him on facebook (mutual friend posted it) and I didn't even bother looking at them.."Oh, I recognise that face" - that's all I felt.. sometimes it takes that little "push" from them, for us to realize how lucky we are that they are out of our lives! 1
Author brokeNlost Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 So I went into NC after the last confrontation. This morning I woke up to these messages. her: I think me and him won't make it. He is kinda tired of me already This bitch wants me back now. LOL. But i'm done with her bull****.
BC1980 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 So I went into NC after the last confrontation. This morning I woke up to these messages. her: I think me and him won't make it. He is kinda tired of me already This bitch wants me back now. LOL. But i'm done with her bull****. I would not respond to that message. There is really nothing positive that will come out of responding.
Author brokeNlost Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 I would not respond to that message. There is really nothing positive that will come out of responding. Yeah im not going to respond but If I did, I would say "What a coincidence, I'm also tired of your ass" lol Funny thing is that she changed her FB profile pic with him around the same time she message me. 1
SurplusIndifference Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 So I went into NC after the last confrontation. This morning I woke up to these messages. her: I think me and him won't make it. He is kinda tired of me already This bitch wants me back now. LOL. But i'm done with her bull****. If she wanted you, she would have broken if off with him instead of the other way around. If she comes back to you, it will only be temporary. She will come back, get the confidence boost, and then leave you when she finds another person she likes "better" than you. My advice is to either get rid of her or do the same thing to her. Go out on a few dates, have some fun, but don't get attached. When you get your confidence back, other (and better) girls will be attracted to you more.
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Take your balls out of her purse and move on to someone who gives two shytes about you. Disgusting!!!
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