aikolele Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Trying to get your attention! Try to be friend with you and got motive behind you. Keep finding excuses, Keep late when meeting,Put aeroplane. Fake friends can be a lot but true friends only one is enough....
No Limit Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Even real friends can become your enemy. No risk no fun I suppose, and sometimes I don't mind either. There are plenty of great memories from the time with my ex-best friend I would never want to miss.
SubliminalSessions Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Even real friends can become your enemy. No risk no fun I suppose, and sometimes I don't mind either. There are plenty of great memories from the time with my ex-best friend I would never want to miss. Exactly. Best way to protect yourself is to not get too close to anyone. I always try to hold back secrets from my friends for as long as I can. It gets hard when your social circle is so small. 3
No Limit Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Exactly. Best way to protect yourself is to not get too close to anyone. I always try to hold back secrets from my friends for as long as I can. It gets hard when your social circle is so small. Some secrets are fine, but your "dark" secrets belong to you and you alone. I put too much trust into my best friends who had been like a sister to me for almost 3 years. 3 fully grown years, interestingly without any arguments; there are people who marry after less time of being a couple.
potsticker Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 what? I think the term you all are using here should be "buddy", not "friend'. And if you think your secrets are too dark to tell anyone in the world, I think you're taking yourself too seriously or you've killed people. Also, "social circle" implies a group of people who's closeness to you varies within a certain parameter... ugh... you guys are depressing
sugarpea Posted January 22, 2014 Posted January 22, 2014 (edited) The sad thing is everyone is out for themselves. They only care about themselves. It is very rare to find anyone out there without their own agenda being of priority. My acquaintances, I tend to try not to call them friends (I only have one to a few true/real friends) only I mean, only contact me when they need something. I have not been in contact with them in ages because I have been the one to organise the get together for this group of 'friends' and to be honest I'm sick of having that responsibility, it's not up to me, it should be everyone's task or at least on a rotation basis. They don't get how annoying it is and time consuming it is to organise something and they are crazy as they always take an all or nothing approach to it. So in our group of say 8-10 people if 1 or 2 of the key people can't attend no body goes and it needs to be reorganised or they don't even bloody bother saying and it ends up being say 5 people in a table of 10! Just no respect! They don't even respond to my emails or text or takes days to respond, "Really...? What makes you so important and above everyone else?!" I've just not bothered since, and because of that we'll probably never see each other again. My real/true friend however contacts me out of the blue now and again for meet ups, we have coffee practically every two weeks or at least once a month and she has a crazy working schedule, I mean sometimes she's crazy late but at least she tells me via text and apologises and she actually shows up, and she finds the time. She's always there for me. I've had another so called friend 'forget' and not bother showing, I called her being at the cinema already and she forgot! This 'friend' said she would go even if the group decided to not go, so much for that?! I find it funny when people don't know the difference. They just call friends the ones that they can get drunk and have fun with. Well yeah that's one type of 'friend' but not really a true/real friend, which should be someone you can count on, someone who is there for you, who listens, doesn't talk sh** behind your back, sticks up for you, and helps you out without essentially needing to ask. Edited January 22, 2014 by sugarpea 1
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