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Ok, so I've just met this guy... We met a few nights ago on a night out, and we stayed out for a few hours after that. He invited me back to his, but I'm not one for one night stands so me being drunk, informed him of this in a very clear way! He did the whole "oh that's cool, I just want to get to know you.". When we got back, we did talk, a lot (even though we were both drunk). The same happened the next morning (although there was a lot of passionate kissing and stuff there, we didn't, you know), and we just chilled and I didn't end up leaving until the evening. He asked me to call him when I got back. I did, and he text me today.

 

Anyway, the texts tonight have been highly... erm... flirty (to say the least!) and it's he who has initiated the flirtiness. My question is, does this mean that he only wants the physical? Or is this how relationships start out? From what I've seen, I actually like this guy. Am I weird to even be thinking about a relationship with someone I've just met? I'm not that young (I'm in my twenties), but I'm also not that experienced in relationships either. Help please!

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If you are looking for a relationship I would say stay away from sex for 90 days. If he is truly trying to get to know you, he would wait for you and not push it. But I would date him and see where it ends up.

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