AmIOK Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Ok, so I've just met this guy... We met a few nights ago on a night out, and we stayed out for a few hours after that. He invited me back to his, but I'm not one for one night stands so me being drunk, informed him of this in a very clear way! He did the whole "oh that's cool, I just want to get to know you.". When we got back, we did talk, a lot (even though we were both drunk). The same happened the next morning (although there was a lot of passionate kissing and stuff there, we didn't, you know), and we just chilled and I didn't end up leaving until the evening. He asked me to call him when I got back. I did, and he text me today. Anyway, the texts tonight have been highly... erm... flirty (to say the least!) and it's he who has initiated the flirtiness. My question is, does this mean that he only wants the physical? Or is this how relationships start out? From what I've seen, I actually like this guy. Am I weird to even be thinking about a relationship with someone I've just met? I'm not that young (I'm in my twenties), but I'm also not that experienced in relationships either. Help please!
d0nnivain Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Some people are a bit vague on where to draw the line between flirting & being vulgar. Since you didn't consummate the relationship that first night, assuming you like him, ask him to dial it back if you don't appreciate what he's saying this early. If he does, great. If he doesn't, proceed with caution.
Mascara Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Flirty sexual texts are great between couples. But in the early stages, the first couple of weeks, I prefer a guy who wants to get to know me.
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