Damaged217 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 So I've been dating this great guy for about 5 weeks. I've met most of his friends and just recently he took me to meet his parents. I know he's super into me. We talk daily and see each other a lot. The thing is...he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. About a week ago he took me to a club for a birthday celebration of one of his friends. After he introduced me to one of his drunk friends, this pal "whispered" to him, "Is she your girlfriend?" He said to him, "Yes, you can call her that" , but I wasn't sure if he knew I overheard. So later that night I jokingly asked him what he was introducing me to his friends as. After a 10 second pause of silence (I guess I caught him off guard), he said that since we weren't official, he didn't introduce me as anything. I had hoped this would lead into the whole "what are we?" conversation, but it didn't. I don't want to seem needy or anything and I'm fine without having a title right now, but it just makes things confusing for me. Technically we are not bf/gf, but he introduced me to his parents...so am I supposed to invite him over for Christmas at my parent's house? I seriously don't know what to do here. Help! lol
Debanked Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Ask him if he'd like to come to your parent's house for Christmas. If he says yes, ask him how he would prefer to be introduced. Be honest about your feelings.
Author Damaged217 Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 ShyGuy, it's not that I don't want him to meet my family, because I do. I just don't know if it's appropriate, I guess? I'm not sure what word I'm trying to come up with here... Since he introduced me to his parents, is it safe to assume that he wouldn't be scared off by me asking him to meet mine?
Phantom888 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 it's way too soon to meet the family. You should only introduce each others families when you are very serious about the relationship, and are planning a future together. Otherwise, it's too soon, and you'd be introducing your family to all sorts of people. Not really appropriate unless your family is super friendly and wants to meet all your friends.
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