Confusedbylove Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 So this summer I met this great girl, at my job and over time we hit it off, and started to date. We would end up dating for four months. She broke up with me last Tuesday, a week before Christmas and my birthday(which is on Christmas). Her main reasons were that I hadn't signed up, to go back to college yet, and to me it seemed she was getting impatient with my sobriety. I am a sex addict. She told me thirty days is nothing, and that she knows a deacon who has been sober for eleven years. I didn't get the impression from her that, we are done forever and that we will never see each other again. Plus she "butt-dialed" me yesterday, which I don't believe for a second. 1-she CALLED ME. 2-if she broke up with me, why does she still have my number? I am pretty sure she wanted to call me, but it was too soon for us to talk and that's why she claimed it was a buttdial. So I am reaching out to people on this forum for any advice. Thank you and I hope I gave enough info about my situation.
chris21422 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Focus on you.. Go back to college and get a stable career.. When I was young I made mistakes giving priority to relationships. Don't make the same mistakes I did.. Focus on bettering yourself first. Go No contact.. So this summer I met this great girl, at my job and over time we hit it off, and started to date. We would end up dating for four months. She broke up with me last Tuesday, a week before Christmas and my birthday(which is on Christmas). Her main reasons were that I hadn't signed up, to go back to college yet, and to me it seemed she was getting impatient with my sobriety. I am a sex addict. She told me thirty days is nothing, and that she knows a deacon who has been sober for eleven years. I didn't get the impression from her that, we are done forever and that we will never see each other again. Plus she "butt-dialed" me yesterday, which I don't believe for a second. 1-she CALLED ME. 2-if she broke up with me, why does she still have my number? I am pretty sure she wanted to call me, but it was too soon for us to talk and that's why she claimed it was a buttdial. So I am reaching out to people on this forum for any advice. Thank you and I hope I gave enough info about my situation. 1
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