dub4502 Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 So I am probably just overthinking here but there seems to be some good advice given on this site. Meet this girl online, we had a fabulous first date, we were texting each other right after it. We pretty much texted everyday. We had a second date about a week later, she came over, we cooked dinner and watched movies, she spent the night. We kept the contact up text and phone calls, both initiating conversations. Then we set up another date, but the night before she texted me asking if I was going to be around tonight, I was, we hung and she spent the night again. So the weekend rolled around and I knew she was unavailable all weekend. out with the girls, Christmas parties, etc...understandable. I didn't want to annoy her when she was with her friends so I figured I would leave her alone and text her when the weekend was over. Well she texted me friday night, saturday morning, saturday night, and sunday morning. I responded to all of them, but stuck to my plan of not initiating knowing she was busy. Today i asked her when can I see you next? Today? She can't she is busy with Christmas 2 days away. Gave her two other potential days, she can't one because of work, and has to check and see about the other day. Fair enough. Of course me being interested in her, am wondering if she is being sincere or nicely pushing me away. Suppose it could just be the busy holiday season. Thanks in advance all!
Ami1uwant Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 you are overanalyzing this.... just relax and be yourself--she seems to like you. This time is difficult because its soo early in the relationship to introduce you to families or friends. Unsure what her job is, but for many companies its a busy time of the year with end of the year stuff going on.
Author dub4502 Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 you are overanalyzing this.... just relax and be yourself--she seems to like you. This time is difficult because its soo early in the relationship to introduce you to families or friends. Unsure what her job is, but for many companies its a busy time of the year with end of the year stuff going on. Thanks for the advice. She works at a pharmacy, so probably is quite busy with that to. I'll wait till after the holidays and see how things go.
deathandtaxes Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Three good dates, including two sleepovers....what are you worried about exactly? Just give her some time. Resist that urge to text, etc. Go have a beer. Something to take your mind off her. It will work or it won't.
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