kanga Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 ok, folks, this is a happy development. i hope. the boy meets me for dinner at a nice place near my house. i arrive and he's waiting for me at the table, drinks already ordered. we talk and laugh. i offer and do pay the bill (first time i've treated him). we go back to my place. he gives me some belated christmas gifts. he watch movies. he stays the night. but it's totally innocent sleeping over. he asks if i'm ticklish. i say no. so he tests me. hehe. oops, guess i am. time to sleep so he says he'll sleep on the floor. i don't argue or make a fuss. in the morning, he asks if he can crawl in next to me. we snuggle and spoon. his hand is wrapped around my waist, occassionally rubbing my hip. our ankles are intertwined. so sweet. we both get up, get ready and head our ways to work. "thank you for letting me stay over," he says. "i'll see you later." the night basically worked out as i had hoped. except no kiss. we have kissed and some more in the past. but not last night. it was, however, the first time for the snuggling and tickling. i'm really doing my hardest to not overthink it. does anyone want to offer an opinion or analysis for me? i know friends often innocently sleep next to each other. but with him knowing my feelings (i have already admitted to him that i like him), i want to believe (and that could be my fatal flaw) that if he's not liking me too, that he wouldn't allow these type of situations to occur. and if he only wanted me for something-something, he would have already tried to get it. oh, and i had anticipated having the "where are we, what are we doing, what is our status?" talk with me. alas, it just didn't feel right.
iceisles Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Don't overanalyze this too much. Just do what comes naturally. Keep spending time with him and let things evolve. It sounds like you've got a good thing going. It's nice to see a positive post on here.
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