dub03 Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 I have been dating this girl since early November. We had gone out about five or six times, fooled around alot, but had yet to sleep together. This past Sunday we started fooling around again, and we started to have sex. Well a couple minutes into it she asks me if I had condom on? I said no, let me put one on (I know stupid, but before she asked me I planned on putting one on in like the next minute). Anyway she stopped, and she got pretty upset with me. We talked for like 5 minutes after that, I was very appologetic, and told her I wasn't thinking, and that she had every right to be upset with me. She asked me to take her home. Monday morninig I sent her text message appologizing again telling her that the last thing I wanted to do was disrespect her. When I got home from work I called her, she didn't pick up so I left a voice mail telling her that I wanted to make sure that she was doing ok, and that I hope we can talk about it. I have yet to hear back from her, and I really do like her. I broke up with my ex like 9 months ago, and this is the first girl that I have gone out with since then that I actually really like, and go figure I mess it up. You think there are any chances of her forgiving me and giving me a second chance??? What else can I do to make this up to her??? Thanks so much for help!!!
Hund1976 Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Well I guess all you can really do at this point is apologize and tell her you were caught up in the heat of moment and lost your head, maybe write that in a card and also tell her that you really like her and hope that she can give you a second chance. Then you need to back off and let her decide if she wants to forgive you or not. If she is meant for you she will come back. If she never speaks to you again because of this then you are probably better off. Since 99.9% of us are going to screw something up sooner or later, so you need someone who can accept that and forgive.
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