louiix Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 So she lives an hour drive away from my city , we communicate ( phone call , text , email ) almost everyday , we've met twice in 3 months , she uses "us" and "we" in her sentence especially when referring to something in the future. She always text or call back or go the extreme mile to explain why it took her long time to get back to me . So basically , communication and level of interest are going well in my point of view . Now , due to our work schedule , it's been difficult to meet up again since a month ago which got me frustrated a little bit . I shared my frustration of not being able to see her more often to her which she replied with " shall we accept it's not going to work between us since we live so far apart " ? I re assured her I think she is a great lady worth knowing and that Im happy to work around her busy schedule if she'll do the same . She replied and said she is more than happy to work around my schedule and that we are going to be less busy once Christmas is over . I asked her again today if she is still bothered with the distance between us ( just to make sure ) ; she told me she isn't bothered but it's hard to get to know each other . I assured her again that It is possible for me to get a transfer ( work ) to her city in April but for the meantime , we should spend enough time ( twice weekly ) and get to know each other but she says we should see how it goes when we meet ( in 2 week time ) and take it from there . We haven't kissed yet though we've held hands and hugged passionately (continuously for a minute or so ) Do you think I've blown this one ? I'll definitely go in for a kiss when we meet but is there anything else I can do ? Is she interested ? I'm 33 and she is 32 - we met on a dating site . Thank you
Ami1uwant Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 The distance and schedule will make it difficult here. Do you or she work closer to where the other lives? i think she has doubts in this too because of the distance---this depends. Do you live in one city and she lives in another city about an hr apart? Do you each live on opposite sides of the same metro area? Do you live in a metro area and she lives in a small town on the outskirts of a the metro area?
Author louiix Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 We live in two completely different cities ( an hour drive apart ). No we don't work closer to each other as we're in different cities I think she needs me to slow things down but how do i go about that being in this settings ??
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