hopelessniceguy Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Hello.. im new to this whole thing but my I have a situation that has me stumped and I was hoping someone on here could offer up some advice. So I started dating this girl from work. But before we started dating and I was trying to get with her she had been talking to this other guy and every time I asked her out she would say "its complicated".... first off wtf does that mean lol. And finally she gave in and we started dating and things were going good for about two weeks then she started acting distant towards me so I confronted her and asked her why... she said she wasnt and I was being insecure. And I may have been a little but only cause she was acting weird. So I tryied to stop bringing it up and pissing her off and things started getting better we had sex and hungout then it went right back to the wau it was with her being very distant and me asking why. Well it got to the point were she broke up with me...now everyone I talk to says NC if you want her back so I sidnt talk to her for a week and yesterday she approached me and said hi then later that day she said she would like to work things out and she got on bipolar meds lmfao... at first I said no I didnt want to work things oit cause I figured I had to proctect myself from her hurting me again..then the next day we were talking and I randomly asked her if she still wanted to work it out and she said you said no...then I explained myself and she said idk its complicated so I said jeremy?(the other guy) and she said yea...wtf am I supposed to do I really like her but idk if she really wants to be with me my gut says no but my heart says dont give up....what should I do?
mrs rubble Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Give up. 1. You work with her. 2. She is seeing another guy. 3. She can't make up her mind what she wants. 4. She has bipolar (can you handle that?) I can't read any reasons why you would want to be with her?
Author hopelessniceguy Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 Thanks....I guess im too much of a coward to push her away cause I dont wanna be alone but I dont want to be a doormat either
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