chelle21689 Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I've known her since I was in middle school and I have a hard time "burning bridges". She isn't that good of a friend because she's very conceited and constantly talks about her life. If I ever try to talk about my accomplishment or problems she just says like a sentence and turns the topic about her. Anyways, she is in town and wants to go out to the bars and wants me to pick her up. I don't like going out to the bars anymore, it's not mine thing. I'd rather do brunch and get it over with than to spend the whole night out with her and her group of friends that I don't even know. I constantly ask myself why am I still talking to her? My friends and family wonder the same because she only cares about herself.
d0nnivain Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Assuming she's home for the holidays, tell her your busy. If you can't talk her into brunch, agree to meet her at the bar, not drive her. After confirming what time she'll be there with other friends, show up about 1/2 hour later, have one drink & leave. Viola you have either dodged her altogether or only spent about an hour including driving on her. Win win.
jimloveslips Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 her group of friends Why's she hanging out with you anyway? Not that you aren't a great person! I'm just wondering why she keeps on asking you out - Maybe she (certainly her friends!) have noticed your antipathy... i think she has a crush on you...
mammasita Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Hmmmm burning bridges? I think this is more about you standing up for yourself. Just say NO.
Author chelle21689 Posted December 23, 2013 Author Posted December 23, 2013 Why's she hanging out with you anyway? Not that you aren't a great person! I'm just wondering why she keeps on asking you out - Maybe she (certainly her friends!) have noticed your antipathy... i think she has a crush on you... Cuz I might be the only one who listens to her talk about her life, even mundane things LOL. I think I'll just ask for brunch time not going out to the club ugh. I just feel bad because she was a big part of my school year since a child. I'm trying to kind of grow a part a bit...talk once in a while
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