2manytrucks Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I need some advice on how to get this girl talking to me. I don't really know her in person, I went to school with her but she was a year ahead of me so I never really talked to her. I recently friended her on facebook and I tried chatting with her but I failed miserably. I waiting for things to cool off now before I send another message. Any ideas what to send when I do again? I just need to get talking to her to the point we can hang out in person and I can take it from there I'm just not good at the messaging thing. We do have a lot in common and dare a lot of interests, I tried playing into that before and I think that's where I went wrong. She recently got out of another relationship and I think she got hurt real bad. She's been posting a lot about wanting a guy that will do the little things for her make her feel special ect. I just need to show her I'm that guy. Thanks
Philosoraptor Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 "I'm interested in getting to know you a little better. Would you be interested in going to XXX with me?" Insert your date of choice in the XXX spot. Be direct and you'll either get your date or know for sure you should move on to the next candidate. 1
Author 2manytrucks Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 Thanks for the anwser. I was asking for recommendations for a new church and she recommended the one she goes to. Would I be better off just trying to get to know her at church and go from there? although I'm not sure on the size of the church so I may not even be able to find her there.
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