Ciel0 Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I posted awhile back about my barista crush...I recently discovered he has a new girlfriend. I was heartbroken when I found out. To me he is a rare gem; sweet, shy, and very handsome. I supose I was drawn to him because he had an aura of innocence. Of course I don't really know the guy so this is probably just my perception and not reality. I honestly believed I was in love with him and felt this way for about five months. He made me so nervous that I never really had the courage to have a conversation with him. I realize that my "love" is quite irrational, but I'm very prone to flights of fancy. The people around me don't really understand what I'm going through. I can't help but feel that this girl is so very lucky. I don't feel it's right to persue him now, I just need some support. Thank you
BOREDouttaMymind Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 ya you need to be careful. you sound like you have one of those 'ill be attracted to anything' kind of mentalities. its going to get you hurt real bad. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 (edited) In a way, this is probably the best thing for you. You became quite infatuated with someone you've never had a real conversation with, someone you don't really know. It sounds like you painted this ideal picture in your head of who he is. He may in fact be a wonderful guy, but you must realize that you've created somewhat of an illusion for yourself. It isn't healthy for you to fall in love with someone you barely know; that's why I say this is likely a blessing in disguise for you. It will hopefully teach you to keep your emotions in check and separate reality from fantasy. EDIT: I've just read some of your other threads about this guy..... Girl. Get. A. Grip! Edited December 23, 2013 by ExpatInItaly 1
Mrlonelyone Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Ceil You needed to have had a conversation with him. Men are not psychic about women liking them. Plus people who work in service are extra nice to everyone they serve, if they are any good at it.
d0nnivain Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 You are doing the honorable thing by backing off. Enjoy the fantasy that he was but more on to somebody who is available.
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