Devostarted Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 It's been 1 and half months since break up, i still think about her everyday unfortunately, I don't want to, i want to move on, i've accepted it and all that she cheated etc.. Just argh, it's been just less then a month since NC she tries to contact me once or twice a week but i ignore her, hmm. I don't know i'm really starting to think about all our old memories as well, making me miss the good times. Argh.
Why so consistent Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 It's been 1 and half months since break up, i still think about her everyday unfortunately, I don't want to, i want to move on, i've accepted it and all that she cheated etc.. Just argh, it's been just less then a month since NC she tries to contact me once or twice a week but i ignore her, hmm. I don't know i'm really starting to think about all our old memories as well, making me miss the good times. Argh. don't and stay NC !! i came to this site and never listen and act foolish now i end up make myself look like stupid because i never listen to them, stay NC NC NC NC NC and move on !!!! plenty of fish out there
Author Devostarted Posted December 23, 2013 Author Posted December 23, 2013 don't and stay NC !! i came to this site and never listen and act foolish now i end up make myself look like stupid because i never listen to them, stay NC NC NC NC NC and move on !!!! plenty of fish out there 'move on' it's easier said then done, i'm trying but i'm getting nowhere.
Why so consistent Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 'move on' it's easier said then done, i'm trying but i'm getting nowhere. guess what ? i didn't listen to those ppl who in this site who tell me what to do and i just got crap from my ex an hour ago full of it !!! They won't care about u anymore from now on is your life your road your time ! you gotta love yourself because they DON'T anymore!!!
Riou Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 It will get better,tell her you need to start a new life so don't contact you if you need to.Her constant contact is the reason why you still think of her so much.
Author Devostarted Posted December 23, 2013 Author Posted December 23, 2013 It will get better,tell her you need to start a new life so don't contact you if you need to.Her constant contact is the reason why you still think of her so much. So in order to be happy i have to break NC tell her not to contact me at all etc..? If i do that i will feel disappointed in myself though.
Author Devostarted Posted December 23, 2013 Author Posted December 23, 2013 So do i break NC to tell her to leave me alone, every time she contacts me i feel like crap and constantly think about her.
JDPT Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Be gentle with yourself. Everything is still so fresh and perhaps you are still internalizing what occur and trying to make some sort of sense if any. Reroute your thoughts, I know everything and anything can resurface memories of the "good times" you lived with your ex. However, nothing is perfect and start to analyze the reason why you two are no longer. And it may be difficult but don't sugar coat it and try to see what occurred from a very objective perspective. Take care if yourself, exercise and basically treat yourself. Don't attempt to find refuge in drugs or alcohol as those will only exacerbate your mental state. This is a long process, no need to rush you are in this for the long run. Keep posting you are in a good place now.
cavalier99 Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 So do i break NC to tell her to leave me alone, every time she contacts me i feel like crap and constantly think about her. No.. dont break NC. Just block her. Very important. Cav
ponchsox Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 So do i break NC to tell her to leave me alone, every time she contacts me i feel like crap and constantly think about her. Yes. NC is the only way you will get over. And I mean never speak, text, email, or look her up on Facebook for good.
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