northdevon Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 First of all, apologies for the length of this haha! I went out into town with a friend, and he was with a female friend of his, her cousin and uncle. Cut a long story short, we lost everyone apart from myself, and the guys female friend. Rather than look for the people she knew, she suggested going to the dance floor so we did. I must stress there WAS alcohol involved, but neither of us were so drunk that we didn't know what we were doing. Anyways, we danced a lot, laughed at each others dancing, joked, and had a general good laugh together. The dancing got a little closer to each other (hugging at points, slight grinding). My friend returned at this point, and she decided she needed to go to the toilet, as she left I leant in and gave her a kiss to which she responded. Once she returned, my friend left. I apologized for springing the kiss on her, to which she kissed me back, and told me she wouldn't of done it if she didn't want to. We continued a mix of dancing, laughing and kissing. She then randomly asked me "Why me? There are lots of girls in here, why me?" So I replied I was having a great time with her and she looked amazing. The pattern continued until we went downstairs to have a drink before the club closed. Once there, she asked me "so how come you don't have a girlfriend?" I told her about fact I had been single for 4 months, she asked me questions like did she treat me right, how long was the relationship. I answered honestly and she shared a little info on herself too. We were about to part when I suggested exchanging numbers. She said "sure I will see you again soon" I suggested if she knew her number off by heart that I could put it in my phone and call her mine. She reeled number off to me, I rang and it rang. We then parted ways by a quick kiss/cuddle and off she walked. I realised after she was walking alone and that I was getting a taxi, so text her to make sure she got in ok. She replied she did and asked if I was ok to which I replied 'yeah I am, just wanted to check you got in ok because I felt bad leaving you and getting a taxi home" I didn't get a reply but it was really late and she was tired when she was out, but I am not sure if I should act on it. Was the fact she asked for background on my relationship status, and fact she could easily of looked for our party of people yet chose to remain with me for the entire night a good sign? The next day my friend wrote to her "so you and him? :P" she replied "haha there is no me and him :)" which I took as reason not to try follow up on it. I have been told by a few friends she could mean that as "because he hasn't followed up on it" or maybe playing it down because she doesn't want to let on to our friend in case she is honest and he passes it on, making her seem a little pathetic? Some un-biased advice needed please. Thanks
Author northdevon Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 Update: I did something that I think probably didn't really help my case, I decided to text her something along lines of "the other night was really fun, hope you enjoyed it too, would be cool to do it again sometime soon if you like?" basically showing I was interested in her, no reply at all. Is this pretty much dead in the water? I'm a little confused how she went from seeming so interested to absolutely nothing? Was she even that interested to begin with really?
jinandjuice Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 It seems like she liked you at the party. You should give her a call or text her to set up a date. Ask her a question so she has a sense to respond. If she completely blows it off then you know she isn't interested. If she wanted to come, she would reply. You struck out once with one text. If you get two more no replies I would say forget her. P.S Don't care what she said to your friend. Unless she says it to you, don't listen.
Author northdevon Posted December 25, 2013 Author Posted December 25, 2013 I suppose so, she came into my place of work tonight, was polite and nicely chatting, for about a minute as I served her, no mention of the text or other night tho, is she one of these girls that likes the night out attention but doesn't want follow up? Confused by her so much haha.
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