Crila16 Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 My ex boyfriend heartlessly broke up with me over a text msg. He txt me on Thanksgiving and I said Thx. He txtd me on my bday, and I didn't respond. If he txts me on Xmas, do I ignore him completely or do I txt "thank u, but who is this?" Which is more hurtful?
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 My ex boyfriend heartlessly broke up with me over a text msg. He txt me on Thanksgiving and I said Thx. He txtd me on my bday, and I didn't respond. If he txts me on Xmas, do I ignore him completely or do I txt "thank u, but who is this?" Which is more hurtful? You say what you want to, he'll see that's forced right away. SAY NOTHING MOVE ON!!!! 1
KatZee Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Best response is nothing. That will sting more than "who's this?" Because lets be real... you know his number. He knows you know his number. Technology is way too prevalent for you to play that game these days. 2
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Ignore! silence speaks volumes ! x
Am4Real Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Do you really want to feel that pain again once he doesn’t answer one of your messages and you have to re-live the break up? Do you? I doubt it. Are you into playing games? Do you like playing hide and seek and counting the seconds off hoping you’ll be found? Hopefully not because of one of the games you might be left hiding permanently or until the next special occasion. How would you like to get into text flirting or whatever it is you engage in and then go through Valentine’s Day hearing absolutely nothing? Get the picture now? Imagining the worst of the above, restate your question to yourself and tell us what you will do on Christmas should another TEXT arrive?
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