louiix Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 So she lives an hour drive away from my city , we communicate ( phone call , text , email ) almost everyday , we've met twice in 3 months , she uses "us" and "we" in her sentences especially when referring to something in the future. She always text or call back or go the extreme mile to explain why it took her long time to get back to me . So basically , communication and level of interest are going well in my point of view . Now , due to our work schedule , it's been difficult to meet up again since a month ago which got me frustrated a little bit . I shared my frustration of not being able to see her more often to her which she replied with " shall we accept it's not going to work between us since we live so far apart " ? I re assured her I think she is a great lady worth knowing and that Im happy to work around her busy schedule if she'll do the same . She replied and said she is more than happy to work around my schedule and that we are going to be less busy once Christmas is over . I asked her again today if she is still bothered with the distance between us ( just to make sure ) ; she told me she isn't bothered but it's hard to get to know each other . I assured her again that It is possible for me to get a transfer ( work ) to her city in April but for the meantime , we should spend enough time ( twice weekly ) and get to know each other but she says we should see how it goes when we meet ( in 2 week time ) and take it from there . We haven't kissed yet though we've held hands and hugged passionately (continuously for a minute or so ) Do you think I've blown this one ? I'll definitely go in for a kiss when we meet but is there anything else I can do ? Is she interested ? I'm 33 and she is 32 - we met on a dating site . Thank you
Little_Discourage Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 If you're really interested in her, the distance won't stop you. And if she is really interested in you, the same goes for her. It's so early on, and especially since there is some distance between you two, you can't really say for sure. I think the fact that she talks to you and talks about future plans is a good sign. It means she considers you a part of her life and wants to continue communicating with you. I think this is something you'd have to talk to her about in person. I definitely wouldn't be getting a transfer anywhere unless it's for reasons other than just her.
Uwaae Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Love is fun loving and love is having a good time. If you have good conversations with her and if she's into you, she loves you. Just play it cool normal and see her when you can
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