Dyamond Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I dated this guy for 7 months. While dating he was also on and off with this other girl behind my back. Finally he broke it off with me to be with the other girl. He said he still want to be "friends."....i told him I cannot be friends and we went out separate ways ever since. I have been on no contact for 24 days now. 5 days ago (on day 19 of no contact) he called me....I did not pick up.....2 hours later he text me "How are you?".........I still did not reply. I am using the no contact rule, so i refuse to reply to him. Today I posted a video (song) on Facebook and he "liked" it......... my question here is, why is he doing this? I am clearly ignoring him, yet he did this. should i delete him off my facebook? (is this a good idea if i want him back?) Please advise, thank you all:o
chris21422 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 No he doesn't want you back.. If he wants you back he will say it. Clearly he's with the other girl and he wants to eat both cakes.. Dont settle being #2.. Delete her from your Facebook now.. Your doing good with the ignoring. Keep it going. 3
Why so consistent Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I dated this guy for 7 months. While dating he was also on and off with this other girl behind my back. Finally he broke it off with me to be with the other girl. He said he still want to be "friends."....i told him I cannot be friends and we went out separate ways ever since. I have been on no contact for 24 days now. 5 days ago (on day 19 of no contact) he called me....I did not pick up.....2 hours later he text me "How are you?".........I still did not reply. I am using the no contact rule, so i refuse to reply to him. Today I posted a video (song) on Facebook and he "liked" it......... my question here is, why is he doing this? I am clearly ignoring him, yet he did this. should i delete him off my facebook? (is this a good idea if i want him back?) Please advise, thank you all:o I'm not in the position to tell u the right thing because I'm confused myself , but what I read above you are ready to move on and once he cheat and there will be another . Maybe the other girl left him or something or there's many reason but why u wanna get back to a man that did something horrible to you ? Stay NC block him out of your life because u said it "we cannot be friend".
chris21422 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I mean delete him not her lol.. No he doesn't want you back.. If he wants you back he will say it. Clearly he's with the other girl and he wants to eat both cakes.. Dont settle being #2.. Delete her from your Facebook now.. Your doing good with the ignoring. Keep it going.
Winter blue Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I dated this guy for 7 months. While dating he was also on and off with this other girl behind my back. Finally he broke it off with me to be with the other girl. He said he still want to be "friends."....i told him I cannot be friends and we went out separate ways ever since. I have been on no contact for 24 days now. 5 days ago (on day 19 of no contact) he called me....I did not pick up.....2 hours later he text me "How are you?".........I still did not reply. I am using the no contact rule, so i refuse to reply to him. Today I posted a video (song) on Facebook and he "liked" it......... my question here is, why is he doing this? I am clearly ignoring him, yet he did this. should i delete him off my facebook? (is this a good idea if i want him back?) Please advise, thank you all:o He is doing this because he is trying to be friendly. But you already decide you don't want him as a friend so why do you still keep him on your fb? I know it's hard to delete someone once so important in your life but, it was him who chose to walk out your life, what is the point to keep him on a website when you are not even friends in real life anymore? Deleting him on fb won't stop him if he really wants you back, if you were really mattered to him, he will find his way back. You are doing well with maintaining no contact, keeping up with that. The worst scenario, he won't come back but you will be healed. But honestly think for yourself, why do you want him back when he was with someone else behind your back all this time? It's a big character flaw and if he could do it to you then what makes you to think he won't do it again.
Author Dyamond Posted December 24, 2013 Author Posted December 24, 2013 Thank you all for your honest responses. I deleted him off my facebook. I'm not sure how all of this will turn out in the future but I guess its for the best.
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