stockport23 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Hi, i dont know if this is appropiate on here but am looking for help. My wife and i have been married for over 2 years and cant have sex!! Dont know whos fault it is we are both virgins as well which doesnt help. I struggle to keep an erection when trying to enter so think it might be my fault but she also complains that her vagina hurts when we try and have sex. We have tried lube and different positions but nothing... help
d0nnivain Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 You need to talk to a doctor. It might be all nerves but it might be physical.
Author stockport23 Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 Thanks but i havent been to a doctor since i was child... scared much
TaraMaiden Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I think speaking to a psycho-sexual counsellor would help you. The title sounds grandiose, but basically it's speaking to an extremely sympathetic and helpful person who's heard it all before. Read whatever info you can, buy books and also research educational video material such as 'Lovers' Guide' or similar. If you need help - find it. Making weak comments like "I'm scared to go to a doctor" is frankly, ridiculous, excuse me for saying. You're a grown married man who wants to have sex with his wife, and enjoy the pleasure of it. So you're going to have to face your fears - and demons - bite the bullet and do something..... 1
M30USA Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Have you ever had intercourse even once? Secondly, is this threatening the marriage?
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