Mondmellonw Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 My ex had an accident. I KNOW: I should not even know that. But I still somehow care. So when a mutual friend told me I felt sad.. I immediately wanted to say "get well soon" (and more stuff),.. and I did. But he didn't responded me. I guess this is it. I should get over this. I just don't know how.
JDPT Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Now you know, live and learn. As harsh as this May sound he doesn't need you to wish him anything. Focus on you no need for you to worry about the past any further. 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 True. I never felt like this on any other BU, but I feel better as time goes by, and I keep on working on myself. Thankyou
BC1980 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 True. I never felt like this on any other BU, but I feel better as time goes by, and I keep on working on myself. Thankyou It's so hard to find our your ex could care less. I found that out as well when I broke NC, but it did give me the kick I needed to move forward. 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 Yeah, it feels like a K.O. But sometimes that's exactly what we need to arise.
deathandtaxes Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 How? Time. And not thinking or doing anything about your ex. You shouldn't have sent a text. Next time you find yourself thinking about your ex, find something to distract yourself. If you feel the need to text or write or call, do something immediately to take your mind off. It sucks really bad. It might not even be that your ex could care less, but by your ex not responding, your ex is not giving you any false hope. 3
Author Mondmellonw Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 How? Time. And not thinking or doing anything about your ex. You shouldn't have sent a text. Next time you find yourself thinking about your ex, find something to distract yourself. If you feel the need to text or write or call, do something immediately to take your mind off. It sucks really bad. It might not even be that your ex could care less, but by your ex not responding, your ex is not giving you any false hope. I left him.... I think he doesn't wants me to be giving him any attention cause he finds it false, or annoying, I dunno. I know it's gonna take some time but it has been a month already and I never felt like this before, it's hard. Anyways, thank you, I'll try to focus on myself. 1
EuTuBrute Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 ^ you see the power of NC right here... The dumper tried to contact and got shut down, the dumpee just got more power this way 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 ^ you see the power of NC right here... The dumper tried to contact and got shut down, the dumpee just got more power this way I guess. It is terrible to talk about power. Even when I was worried, this seems real. So, yeah, I'll be silent from now on.
TylerDurdenn Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 You did nothing wrong, don't beat yourself up over it. 1
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