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Hey all,

 

I've been out on a few dates with a guy, and at first, he texted me like crazy. We had a great time a couple of nights, and had made tentative plans to do something either Friday or Saturday night. I know he's been busy with work (2 jobs) and not feeling that well, and he told me he tends to just try to rest and sleep when he's sick, but I haven't heard from him all weekend even though I sent him a couple asking how he was doing and seeing if he wanted to do something.

 

We're not like "together" really, but he kept telling me how much he likes spending time with me, etc. He introduced me to his friends, stuff like that.

 

Am I freaking out over nothing? I tend to do that. Is this something some people just do even though they're into you?

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From now until Monday Jan 6 you have to give people you just met a break. You don't know what the holidays hold for them -- family pressures, depression, too many obligations, money problems. . . blah, blah, blah.

 

 

What he's doing may be the classic fade out but given the fact that he has 2 jobs & told you he wasn't feeling well, let's assume whatever is wrong has nothing to do with you.

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Don't think a lot but know that this could be anything... He is busy or ignoring u... Be patient n u will know....

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Thank you. I have some anxiety issues, so I often worry far more than I should over the littlest thing. I'm trying not to, though!

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