robaday Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Ive been dating someone for about 6 weeks now, weve met up 7 times or so. We get on good, good chemistry, shes cool, nice and relaxed and things have been good overall. But for whatever reason Im not 100% sure about her and feel like I should be at this stage. Over the break, naturally she wants to spend more time together and I understand that but feel shes more invested than me. What are others experiences when dating? do you set a certain period of time so as not to hurt someone elses feelings? if things are going well but your not feeling that spark do you give it more time? or cut your losses early so you can both find people more compatible?
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Are you not feeling the spark? If so I would cut my losses. She is probably confused why you are acting distant..
SunnySide0418 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I think after 6 or 7 weeks you should really be looking forward to seeing her and it doesn't seem as if you are. I'd move on .. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 By two dates I usually have enough info to determine if I want to proceed. I rarely make decisions after 1 date, just in case their was nervousness coloring the event.
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