sportygirl84 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I really don't know where to go for asking for advice for this but here is the dilemma. Any feedback is good feedback I feel like because at this point I am objective. I met this former marine guy about a week ago and our weekend went superb! He was the biggest gentleman, sweet, endearing, protective, and he was so easy to be around. He planned fun things for us to do and the chemistry was there. We couldn't keep our hands off each other and our talks were really in depth and connected. We spent 3 days in a row together on a weekend but he was the one that kept asking to see me, so I thought it was okay to see him 3 days in a row. By the 4th day he had a bit of a freak out and tells me things felt a little rushed and that his schedule would be changing for work and wanted to prepare me for the change. When he explained his schedule to me I was very confused in the sense of...if this guy has hardly any time for himself, why is going to make time for me? He told me he was pretty afraid of my reaction and that I can't take any of this personal if this is to work out eventually. He says we still should see each other and date when his schedule allows and nothing is going to change, we will take things slow, and see what happens. He told me he wouldn't act weird on me and that he likes me and if that changes he will definitely let me know. This past week, everything started out fine. He would text me good mornings and tell me all about his days but these last few days, I feel like something has been going on personally he won't tell me about and has hardly been talking to me. He will hardly return my text messages if I send any. He doesn't call me darlin anymore or act sweet or excited about me at all. He just seems so cold whenever he texts me. So I feel very confused. I know he's a former marine and has been through hell and back. I have never pressured him to tell me anything he doesn't want to (In fact I never ask him questions reguarding his duty) but it has irritated me that he has put me in a box of other women who want to break his walls down and when they do they can't handle the marine. I am new and I feel like that statement towards me was a little unfair. I do like him. He can be a really funny guy but lately I just feel like he either doesn't want to get to know me or something is going or he's shutting down because of his marine mentality. Can anyone help me understand this guy better? Thanks!
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