bob the brave Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 This is silly, but how important do you feel dancing is to dating and/or courtship? Does it makes a difference to you whether your partner is a good dancer, bad dancer or doesn't dance?
Tayla Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I consider dancing a form of communication. Some folks simply prefer to "sit it out". To each their own. I've met men who have two left feet, and had a blast teaching them some line dances or simple steps so they can feel comfortable in a social environment. It doesn't make or break the relationship, it does though make one wonder how risk taking a person is to put themselves out there and not give a hoot what others think. I know a couple that are dance snobs (ballroom dancing) and they chastise folks who don't do the moves properly. Thus why I say, don't give a hoot what others think, dance and communicate! Lifes too short to care what others think
mario_C Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 It's awesome. Best date scenario ever. I do miss it, actually.
todreaminblue Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Dancing to me is a form of self expression and i dont expect everyone wants to express themselves in the same way I do , i have been out with guys who dont dance, guys who do , and a guy who taught others how to pop and lock he excels in the dance arena specifically old school break dancing, sucks as a partner......good friend though ....he taught me some moves which i then adjusted to suit my own self expression....... may i have this dance has a deeper level of meaning for me...i dont give a crap how the guy dances honestly.....i consider my own style a bit goofy......when i am happy ...i am goofy, dancing makes me happy...but if a guy were to say may i have this dance........ it shows a real old school respect.....nothing i admire more.... it would be akin to dancing with my grandfather who by the way had two left feet....but the way he respected women and way he loved me he would hold out hsi hand with thsi huge smile and say "may i have this dance debs" i would giggle at his two left feet when his fave song came on but i never ever turned that guy down...........can reduce me to tears thinking about it...so yeah ....may i have this dance....whole deeper level of meaning....funny how words can invoke such a cerebral response......that is why ...."may I have this dance" is one of my fave phrases......goofy huh........deb 1
Got it Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Very important and very sexy. My husband is a wonderful dancing and seeing him move always gets my motor running. It is just so much fun to do together.
Silly_Girl Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I absolutely love that we dance together when we go out. We spent most of our wedding reception dancing together But if he didn't dance I wouldn't love him any less.
regine_phalange Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 It's so fun! Love it I don't care if he is a great dancer or not. Just know how to have fun with it.
d0nnivain Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 There's a school of thought that says how he moves on the dance floor is a an indication of how he'll move in the bedroom. I'm not sure I buy that but it's something to think about. I like to dance. There's something very sensual about dancing with a man. I love being in my husband's arms. He however, hates to dance but for me he'll do a few slow songs. If I get him good & liquored up, the dance floor & crowded & he doesn't know anybody I can get a fast song or two once in a while. lol It's not a deal breaker but for people who don't like to dance, give it a try to make your partner happy.
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