jinandjuice Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 So me and this girl I am talking to have been snap chatting and texting everyday for the past couple of months. Two days ago all her girlfriends came into town and she is spending the weekend with them. On that night we texted a lot even though they were there. I usually initiate contact with her in a snapchat or text so I wanted to see if she would initiate contact with me. Yesterday we didn't text or snap once. I am wondering if I should keep waiting till she snaps me.
Fondue Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Similar to how many women on this thread complain about men being "interested, but not interested enough," I would say that if she doesn't return initiation of communication, then she simply "isn't interested enough." I would lower her on my list of interests.
lioness75 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 So me and this girl I am talking to have been snap chatting and texting everyday for the past couple of months. Two days ago all her girlfriends came into town and she is spending the weekend with them. On that night we texted a lot even though they were there. I usually initiate contact with her in a snapchat or text so I wanted to see if she would initiate contact with me. Yesterday we didn't text or snap once. I am wondering if I should keep waiting till she snaps me. Actually, women are taught not to initiate and just mirror the man's behaviour. So maybe she is waiting as well. If yo initiate and she doesnt answer or takes a lot of time to reply and the reply is very brief, then i would say that she's not that interested. 2
Guitarisgood Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 A few good girl friends tell me off saying when in a relationship I as a guy have to message girls as they will only reply and never initiate. I think at the beginning of the dating as long as she is responding, snapchatting back good and all then there is nothing wrong. But if you detect her going cold via text etc - sounding bored. Best to let this one go.
MidwestUSA Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 So me and this girl I am talking to have been snap chatting and texting everyday for the past couple of months. Is this someone you have met in person? Do you consider yourself to be dating? If not, that may be what she's waiting for, an actual face to face date. Ask her! I'd be bored of texting/snap chatting after a couple of DAYS! 1
MidwestUSA Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 On second thought, if this girl is the topic of your prior six threads, I'd say you are planted firmly in the friend zone. She's using you for a good time out now and then, but isn't sure she 'feels that way'. You pushed her for that answer, and got it. I think you're wasting your time, sorry.
Little_Discourage Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I would definitely initiate contact with her. In my own experience, when I have met a guy I am interested in and he is usually the one to initiate any communication between us, I get used to it being that way. And the moment he stops initiating, I begin to worry that he has lost interest. She may be holding out waiting for you to contact her because she is worried you've lost interest.
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