Starnette83 Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Men Are Dogs... I don't want to sound general but more then 50% of men are dogs, especially when they haven truly fallen in love!! Men have girlfriends because they want sex, I think that if their girlfriends didn't have sex with them they would be single. So next time you think you're special just because he claims you as his girlfriend, think again! He may say he loves you, but does he prove it? Does he talk to you about the future? Does he ever say, "Next year we should go to a trip to Italy..or so and so" Or does it just seem like a day to day thing with him, were you always find yourself wondering, will he be here tommorow? And when you're out does he turn his head to look at other girls, making you feel so little, wanting to scream and run, and ask "WHY? when im here next to you"...And when you go on his computer after you both have had the best sex ever were you heard him Moan and saw his toes curl, and what you found was downloads of Pamela Anderson tits ****ing someone, and An exposed pussy...how does it make you feel? was it worth having sex, when he always runs back to these images and jacks off to them, what if hes fantasizing about these images or videos while hes having sex with you? Why is it that all of a sudden he wants his dick in between your small tits, does he think you're that porn model on the video he just saw. Its so disgusting how men can claim all this crap and really not feel a thing, mainly all they want is just sex! They no longer think about marriage or about just one girl. Its never enough for them and they can lie and lie, and hurt and hurt, it just depends on the girl, whether she will take it or not!!! When a man falls in love he will stop watching porn if thats what it takes to see you happy, he wont say "its a man thing" he will put his love with you first, because honestly to him you matter more then porn. When hes online and you are both talking he wont suddenly stop iming you without saying "brb" or "Hold on" and then IM you an hour later and pretend like nothing. He will bring you roses, he will treat you right, and he will remain faitful even when he is face to face with a supermodel who flirts with him. So next time you get that gut feeling, listen.... Dont let men convince us that PORN is Normal!, and like that song goes "It wasnt me"...Yes it was you..sometimes men Just know how deny, lie, and decieve!!
CoconutJuice Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Totally Agreed!... But theres nothing good, just sitting here and whinin... Dont get mad..Get even...
Author Starnette83 Posted January 5, 2005 Author Posted January 5, 2005 totally agree Coconut, we need more authors like Sherry argov
Kate Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 you are so right on. i have been so horrible treated by men over the last 5 years and i can't believe myself. i always used to pity girls who got treated badly and say it was their fault...but you know, slowly but surely it really can happen to anyone with a good and open heart. it did to me. and now, as a man comes into my life who is doing all of the "right" things, all i can do is question him. not fair, huh?? let's line up the 2 casts of characters here: 1) lying, cheating scumbag: a. talks about women like trash when he think you aren't listening. b. makes plans and breaks them -- often c. you make excuses for all of those broken plans and only long to see him d. you buy him little gifts or cards or do favors for him and he never or rarely reciprocates e. the only reason he wants to see you after 4 days is because he hasn't gotten sex (from you!) f. if you get slightly upset about something or don't seem happy, he refuses to talk to you, acts like it's your fault, especially in public. he won't talk or listen and YOU end up apologizing! g. he never mentions anything in the future h. all he wants to do with you is drink, watch tv or eat cheap food i. he talks badly in any way about your family -- even if they ARE crazy j. he hates one or both of his parents... and shares that with you like it's no big deal k. you are constantly wondering about his intentions because he is not CRYSTAL CLEAR! 2) simple, genuine regular guy a. always picks you up for dates unless it is rediculously inconvenient b. will never let you pay unless he is totally broke c. brings you flowers at least by your 3rd date or the first time you are intimate d. is ALWAYS on time, and if not, you get a phone call e. makes you feel like an actual woman -- takes care of you like a man should, making sure you are covered when you are sick or travelling, etc. f. brings you dinner on no special occasion g. doesn't look around constantly when you are out to dinner or at a bar h. never makes you feel like you owe him something after doing nice things for you i. references plans for the future -- a few months or so down the road j. talks to you about his family and asks about yours -- and tells you about mentioning you to his mom!! k. is stable in one way or another in life -- financially, job, school...has a routine of some sort l. fixes things around your house you don't even know are broken i'm so sick of dating losers, i will never do it again...even if mr. right doesn't turn out to be mr. right, i can be sure he won't be mr. wrong!!!
Author Starnette83 Posted January 5, 2005 Author Posted January 5, 2005 Here are more things Ive learned about MEN! 1. Tell you they will call you at 3pm, but now its 5pm. You call his cell and he doesnt pick up. Then when he finally calls you he apologizes and makes some stupid excuse which you forgive him for and then sais he left his cell phone in his car, or house and thats why he didnt get your calls, then you end up feeling guilty for thinking bad. 2. Its your Anniversary and he takes you to eat but hasnt bought you anything special or told you anything special during dinner, instead hes too busy looking around while you guys are eating that you are finding more eye contact with your food then him. 3. When you get upset or sad, instead of talking to you he runs away and leaves you crying or angered alone, then he comes back after a few hours and you have vented all your tears alone and anger all alone that all you want to do is makeup and you just let it go and forgive him because u dont want him to runaway again if you get upset. 4. youre in his car and his cell phone rings, he sees the caller id and doesnt pick up, then he looks at u and grins, and you ask "Who was it"? and he either will say "dont worry about it, what you dont trust me?" turning it around to you, or lies saying "Oh it was my cousin, i dont want to talk to him now" 5. You are online and you find out hes in rate and date me site, you get mad and call him on it, he acts like nothing, and sometimes will even apologize , a week later hes on a different one and new girls are on his buddylist, and when you ask him about it, he makes it seem liek youre the insecure and psycho one. 6. He lets himself be influenced by stupid friends who are single and telling him "You're missing out" 7. He wants to see you when hes horney 8. When you dont want to have sex with him he gets upset and stops cuddling with you and goes on his computer. 9. He puts gel right when you leave and hes going to go out, no longer tries to impress you but sure is trying to impress others. 10. Only hugs you when hes trying to show you off, like when you're wearing a short skirt and sees you getting attention
Chris_T. Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Originally posted by Starnette83 Men Are Dogs... I don't want to sound general but more then 50% of men are dogs, especially when they haven truly fallen in love!! Men have girlfriends because they want sex, I think that if their girlfriends didn't have sex with them they would be single. So next time you think you're special just because he claims you as his girlfriend, think again! He may say he loves you, but does he prove it? Does he talk to you about the future? Does he ever say, "Next year we should go to a trip to Italy..or so and so" Or does it just seem like a day to day thing with him, were you always find yourself wondering, will he be here tommorow? And when you're out does he turn his head to look at other girls, making you feel so little, wanting to scream and run, and ask "WHY? when im here next to you"...And when you go on his computer after you both have had the best sex ever were you heard him Moan and saw his toes curl, and what you found was downloads of Pamela Anderson tits ****ing someone, and An exposed pussy...how does it make you feel? was it worth having sex, when he always runs back to these images and jacks off to them, what if hes fantasizing about these images or videos while hes having sex with you? Why is it that all of a sudden he wants his dick in between your small tits, does he think you're that porn model on the video he just saw. Its so disgusting how men can claim all this crap and really not feel a thing, mainly all they want is just sex! They no longer think about marriage or about just one girl. Its never enough for them and they can lie and lie, and hurt and hurt, it just depends on the girl, whether she will take it or not!!! When a man falls in love he will stop watching porn if thats what it takes to see you happy, he wont say "its a man thing" he will put his love with you first, because honestly to him you matter more then porn. When hes online and you are both talking he wont suddenly stop iming you without saying "brb" or "Hold on" and then IM you an hour later and pretend like nothing. He will bring you roses, he will treat you right, and he will remain faitful even when he is face to face with a supermodel who flirts with him. So next time you get that gut feeling, listen.... Dont let men convince us that PORN is Normal!, and like that song goes "It wasnt me"...Yes it was you..sometimes men Just know how deny, lie, and decieve!! If you get jealous over pixels on a computer screen, you have issues. Would you rather he go diddle someone else? Women are just as big, if not bigger, dogs than men. I missed the memo where this became a men-bashers site.
dyermaker Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 You qualify love as a rejection of sexuality, a willingness to succumb to childish manipulation, and excessive silly gestures and expensive but compulsory actions that somehow can redeem a man from this invisible debt you've placed on their gender. You expect them to placate your insecurities, behave how you choose for them to behave, and refrain from communicating certain needs that they may have. Here's a hint, the need to masturbate freely is a need for most men. The truth is, for as long as you hold this ridiculous view about humanity, you'll never experience love. You'll just experience frustration and pain. You all are girls. I wish you the best in learning to become women.
Grinning Maniac Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 You have to be joking. Holy hell...we've found Patient Zero. You must be the most immature girl on the planet. You've learned things about "men"? Right. You've learned things about YOUR man, half of which are b.s. when applied to people in general. This thread has to be the biggest broad generalization ever. Holy hell. I usually have more to say about this kind of thing...but that post was so chock full of "ignorant" that I just sort of sat here for a while in shock at how narrow your perceptions are that I couldn't think straight. Maybe later. I have to go wash off the "stupid" now. PS: Exactly how old are all of you? I'm really curious about that one.
RowanRavyn Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Wow! 1. Glad I have one of the other 50% of guys 2. Glad I am one of the women! Not a little girl.
moimeme Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Laws, how pathetic can anybody get. 1. Porn is nothing to do with you 2. If you give it up too soon, don't be surprised if the guy's only into you for sex 3. If you put up with someone treating you badly once, expect it will happen again 4. If you ignore 1, 2, and 3, don't then complain that all men are horrible. They are not. 5. 1, 2, 3, 4. Repeat.
Adunaphel Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Originally posted by moimeme 3. If you put up with someone treating you badly once, expect it will happen again Most precious piece of advice ever. (and I'd say it works for both sexes)
RowanRavyn Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Originally posted by Adunaphel Most precious piece of advice ever. (and I'd say it works for both sexes) The only true "one size fits all"
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 If the men are giving you that much trouble, then consider this: you are continually picking the wrong type of guys, or you are picking guys that are completely wrong for you, or the problem IS you. That same man who treats you like crap, and uses you for sex will likely dump you for a woman that he can fall deeply in love with and marry. These are the types who say "I'm not ready to get married" or "I don't believe in marriage" - and then dump you and some time later are having a huge happy romantic wedding. Men may be dogs to you, but they won't be dogs to everyone - its just a matter of finding the right woman/relationship which will cause him to want to change his ways. Maybe you can consider what it is about you, and relationships with you that always lead to this: could it be a matter of a self-fulfilling prophecy? You convince yourself that men are dogs, and then you find one and subconsciously sabatoge the relationship in some way until the man acts in a way that you predicted - then you can comfort yourself with the fact that "all men are dogs". It would also help to get some therapy or counseling for your deep insecurities. You'll find that the stronger your self esteem and mental health, the better your relationships will be. It may not be that men are dogs, but rather your perception of them and your projection of your own issues onto them may be what is causing them to be 'dogs'. Quit being a victim - set up some counseling or therapy to get to the bottom of why you continually find yourself in these situations with these kind of men. I think it would help you tremendously in your future relationships.
HokeyReligions Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Awe now, don't compare men to dogs in a negative way. Dogs are wonderful creatures! I love my dogs and they love me unconditionally. They only want to please me and make me happy and I feel the same about them. There is no purer love, except maybe between parents and children and even that love is guaranteed pure!
tattoomytoe Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 well if 50% of men are dogs... i guess 50% of women are bitches that can match those dogs.
tattoomytoe Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Originally posted by RowanRavyn B-abe I-n T-otal C-ontrol of H-erself rowan...if that is what you like to think, well good for you!
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 One key thing to remember about 'bitches (in the bad sense rather than the grrrrl power sense)' and 'dogs' are that they are defined as such in context of the relationship. One woman's 'dog' will inevitably turn out to be someone else's Prince Charming. A heartless bitch will turn out to be another man's love of his life. Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is that often, the person who you most want just isn't right for you - no matter how bad you want to be with them - they cannot be the good person that you want them to be, because they are not right for you. That doesn't mean they can't be right for someone else.
tattoomytoe Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Lucrezia~ you say the best stuff! it is sooo true that someone's Trash is anothers treasure.
RowanRavyn Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Originally posted by tattoomytoe rowan...if that is what you like to think, well good for you! Hey it works for me! I have a bumper sticker that says: "you say I'm a bitch like its a bad thing."
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 i don't piss on walls or eat my own faeces ( well not yet anyway! )
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