bubbaganoosh Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 i just want water under the bridge." There it is. Right there. It's water under the bridge so leave it go and move on. Not worth the time to type the message out.
ks0985 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Just dont, you will come across as a weak looking beta male who has not moved on. Wouldnt you rather come across as the dude who moved on and never looked back.
Author Jord Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 fine i won't send that email. what about a simple merry x-mas, then small talk it out of her?
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 fine i won't send that email. what about a simple merry x-mas, then small talk it out of her? (In the tone of "We wish you a Merry Christmas) No No No No No No No No NA -No No No No No No No NA -No No No No No No No NO NO NO NO....NO NO!! Dude, she broke up with you. If she wanted to be with you, she would let you know. Do NOT contact her. Merry Christmas 3
Mariposa10 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 What? Did you just go from wanting to start a fight to wishing her Merry Christmas? No, no, you're emotions are all over the place. Before you do any of those things you need to be in charge of your emotions. Go hang out with some friends, instead. fine i won't send that email. what about a simple merry x-mas, then small talk it out of her? 1
Simon Phoenix Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 fine i won't send that email. what about a simple merry x-mas, then small talk it out of her? 1
BC1980 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 fine i won't send that email. what about a simple merry x-mas, then small talk it out of her? No Merry Christmas texts. Absolutely freakin not. 1
Author Jord Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 i know i'm emotional, and there is a part of me that wants to be with her again, but i'm not trying to force a reconciliation. maybe i just miss her, and i'm trying any excuse to interact with her.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 i know i'm emotional, and there is a part of me that wants to be with her again, but i'm not trying to force a reconciliation. maybe i just miss her, and i'm trying any excuse to interact with her. And that desperation will come through in obvious fashion and make her think that you are a weak-willed wussy pushover. 1
Mariposa10 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 This is perfectly normal!! But you have to do something about it. Why not hang out with friends? Meet new people? Re-connect with old friends? i know i'm emotional, and there is a part of me that wants to be with her again, but i'm not trying to force a reconciliation. maybe i just miss her, and i'm trying any excuse to interact with her.
Author Jord Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 This is perfectly normal!! But you have to do something about it. Why not hang out with friends? Meet new people? Re-connect with old friends? I am. going out almost every day. i get acquainted with cute girls, but leads to nothing. it seems i can't make moves cause i still have my ex on my mind.
Mariposa10 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 You don't need to have a relationship with them, just talk to them enjoy the moment. Do not try to "snap out of it." Deal with the pain now, by do something about it. For me re-connecting with all friends has been helpful. I am. going out almost every day. i get acquainted with cute girls, but leads to nothing. it seems i can't make moves cause i still have my ex on my mind.
StyleOnEm Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 That text is absolutely cringe-worthy. Holy crap. You should NOT be getting in touch with her AT ALL, no matter what the occasion. I don't care if it's Christmas, her birthday, or you found out her cat died. At this stage, you are still very emotional (even if you deny it). Any convo with her will ultimately lead you to play the victim, and try to get her to "come clean." You gotta let things go man. Consider this a big lesson you need to learn for your next relationship. 1
flight E Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 I pray after the unanimous decision, u don't send any text whatsoever
legion113 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Geez you send that you might as well join up at eunuchs.com right after 2
Jord11 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Take it from a man with the same name, don't do it my ex left me out of the blue told me she didn't love me anymore, I begged and pleaded cried got pissed off I am now in 10 months no contact I know she has a new boyfriend now, their is no way in hell would I ever ask her why this why that, leave it be if she contacts you talk but don't mention anything about the past it's gone, don't do it man, stay strong
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