Ethereal Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 (edited) My ex left me for someone else but was a complete coward about it. He started treating me badly so I would dump him basically. I did and he got with this girl the day after. This was September and they moved in together last month. I sent my ex some angry texts the end of November and we haven't contacted each other since. I don't ever want to see him or speak to him again. He disgusts me. I hadn't looked at his or her social media for three weeks. I forced myself to stop looking because it was making me upset. I had a weak moment today and checked her Twitter. I noticed on the 28th of November she tweeted: "it's a weird feeling knowing someone has been stalking your social media #getalife" I know it was me she was talking about because the 28th of November was when I found out they moved in together and I sent him angry texts. I'm angry. I felt like tweeting her back but obviously I'm not going to. I have more dignity than that. I never made anything public on social networking websites concerning the break up and the fact that she has really gets to me. I thought maybe she was a nice girl which is why my ex wants to be with her, but she seems to be a nasty piece of work. If it was the other way around and I was the girl a guy left his ex for, I'd feel sorry for the ex for being broken up with in such a cowardly way. It must be heartbreaking for her. But she just says "get a life". Wow. I'm not going to look at ther social media anymore. Don't worry. I'll just let those two be - what is inevitably going to fail - together from now on. Ugh... The anger stage is hard. Edited December 21, 2013 by Ethereal
firefly2613 Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 She's a sad human and right now she is thriving on the idea that she has him and you don't, and as for your ex he probably just likes that two girls are "fighting" over him. It's difficult, but don't stoop to her level. It won't be very long before everything blows up in her face anyway. She only put that out there so you would show a reaction. Deafen them with your silence and STAY OFF THEIR SOCIAL MEDIA. 3
fixing Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Everything Firefly said! She is nothing but a dumb bitch. And he's an arrogant *******. Block them on all the social networks. You better off with out them idiots in your life
lop98 Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Well, try to look at it from the outside, the guy will only tell his version and it is an embellished version if you consider this is his new partner and he's going to make himself sound better than he actually is and in order to do that, he has to make the ex look insane, why would he be so dumb as to tell her how he dumps people and behaves in general? So no, she's not dumb, and you've been snooping and reacted on what you found out by snooping so she reacted too. It's pretty logical really. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do or say or "get back at her" with in order to make yourself look better... anything you do in addition to what's already been done can only be more downgrading for you. Just chin up and keep on walking without looking back... that is the only true way to eventually come out of this clean. This girl will find out what he is like, trust me, she will. I experienced something similar, and she also published something about how much he had been lied to and she was a new beginning for him ... to this day I don't know what's up with these two but I did have a new beginning and it's amazing to realize I couldn't care less on whether these two have babies or fall apart as a couple.
Raena Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 Wow, it really is strange that you've had to deal with something so similar to what I've had to deal with. I mean, it really is so similar to my story that I'm creeped out. There are a few differences... namely... the OW in my case was someone he cheated on me with for a year and half before and here we are 2 months after the breakup and she's still running her mouth about me on there. I know you feel like you shouldn't look, and you shouldn't... really, you shouldn't. So don't look if it's upsetting you. Me, I'm past the being upset stage. Now it's more like... hey wait, let me grab my bowl of popcorn and watch the drama unfold on Twitter this evening. It makes me laugh, so yeah, I watch her bipolar episodes on there and laugh with my girlfriends about it. I just don't let her know I've seen it. You on the other hand should probably stay away from it all together. It won't help you heal.
Omei Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 She's a sad human and right now she is thriving on the idea that she has him and you don't, and as for your ex he probably just likes that two girls are "fighting" over him. It's difficult, but don't stoop to her level. It won't be very long before everything blows up in her face anyway. She only put that out there so you would show a reaction. Deafen them with your silence and STAY OFF THEIR SOCIAL MEDIA. Well said.
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