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I have a question why would my ex tell me she's heart broken a few days after I full no contact by blocking her in social nedia?

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Well what's the reason you broke up? Did you do something to make her break up with you? Just because she broke up with you, doesn't mean she's not heartbroken. I just broke up with my boyfriend today and I feel like my heart is smashed into two. :(

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No she gave a plethora of reasons why she broke up with me non of them really made sense. Some of the reasons would habe suggested that I was the best option for her and that she would stay. She said she didn't want to do it and kind of even forced me to initiate the break up towards the end kf the relationship she started to get agitated with me...but heres my thread. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/443615-i-think-i-have-interesting-case-i-need-4.html

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Better question--How COULD she tell you anything if you had gone full NC?

 

Yes, I'm being a smart***, but trying to make a helpful point--one of the main benefits of NC is not having these kinds of questions occupying your head and holding you back from moving forward.

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She has my number i didnt reply though

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She has my number i didnt reply though

 

Time to block her number then.

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It's one of those times that "action speak louder words" my friend. lots of dumpers say things but you can't linger on them. it's hard I know, WE ALL know but take it from everybody else here.. No contact! it's time to heal and let the past go. and yes it's harder done then said(I'm living it right now) but its what you have to do.

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I have a question why would my ex tell me she's heart broken a few days after I full no contact by blocking her in social nedia?

 

 

Greenj30, you know why she's telling you this, it's because she is a woman. Women are so confusing, you ask any two for an opinion, something simple like the color of a hat and you'll get two different responses. If I were you, I wouldn't pay attention to her unless she comes knocking down your door because she wants you, and only you!!

 

Pay her no mind unless, and until the day comes where, she tells you she can't live without you ... and wants sex immediately. When this happens you can start worrying about what she has to say. Get it, now enjoy your weekend brother!

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"Women are so confusing." not just women, men are confusing too. Haven't you been reading all the threads about "confused ex-boyfriends"?

 

Greenj30, you know why she's telling you this, it's because she is a woman. Women are so confusing, you ask any two for an opinion, something simple like the color of a hat and you'll get two different responses. If I were you, I wouldn't pay attention to her unless she comes knocking down your door because she wants you, and only you!!

 

Pay her no mind unless, and until the day comes where, she tells you she can't live without you ... and wants sex immediately. When this happens you can start worrying about what she has to say. Get it, now enjoy your weekend brother!

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"Women are so confusing." not just women, men are confusing too. Haven't you been reading all the threads about "confused ex-boyfriends"?

 

Oh it's Mariposa, the spanish butterfly otra vez... I will answer your question as best as I can.

 

Women = Confusing

 

Boys = Confusing and Immature

 

Men = Clear as Day

 

Now, if you were dating a 45 year old boy, don't expect him to be congruent, he will be as confusing and immature as a 5 year old, FACT!!

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Oh it's Mariposa, the spanish butterfly otra vez... I will answer your question as best as I can.

 

Women = Confusing

 

Boys = Confusing and Immature

 

Men = Clear as Day

 

Now, if you were dating a 45 year old boy, don't expect him to be congruent, he will be as confusing and immature as a 5 year old, FACT!!

 

Hardly, but sweeping generalizations are comforting for those that believe them.

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I disagree. And yes, it's me again... It's just that your posts are sometimes very sexist :eek:

 

Oh it's Mariposa, the spanish butterfly otra vez... I will answer your question as best as I can.

 

Women = Confusing

 

Boys = Confusing and Immature

 

Men = Clear as Day

 

Now, if you were dating a 45 year old boy, don't expect him to be congruent, he will be as confusing and immature as a 5 year old, FACT!!

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Oh it's Mariposa, the spanish butterfly otra vez... I will answer your question as best as I can.

 

Women = Confusing

 

Boys = Confusing and Immature

 

Men = Clear as Day

 

Now, if you were dating a 45 year old boy, don't expect him to be congruent, he will be as confusing and immature as a 5 year old, FACT!!

 

GTFO out of here with your generalizations. I'm a man and I find this incredibly off-base.

 

For the OP, it, more or less, means nothing. It was a good move on your part so keep moving forward.

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