Popsicle Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 (edited) It was my low self-esteem that made me NOT want to continue on with MM. After doing some investigating, I don't feel like I am even half as good as his wife, and I am thankful that, for once, my low self-esteem has done me some good. Ironic, isn't it? Edited December 21, 2013 by Popsicle
Clay Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Its actually sad. You should value yourself. This to me is the most amazing part of all the threads I see. Most people just don't value who they are in the first place. If you did then you might not have ever entertained the MM in the first place before you would already know you deserve better than someone only giving you 50%. Just my thoughts. Clay 5
Author Popsicle Posted December 21, 2013 Author Posted December 21, 2013 Its actually sad. You should value yourself. This to me is the most amazing part of all the threads I see. Most people just don't value who they are in the first place. If you did then you might not have ever entertained the MM in the first place before you would already know you deserve better than someone only giving you 50%. Just my thoughts. Clay Don't I get any credit for extricating myself from this situation? The one thing I have learned is that I never want to experience this ever again. 2
Nothisgirl Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Don't I get any credit for extricating myself from this situation? The one thing I have learned is that I never want to experience this ever again. Absolutely you do!!! But I hope in the process you realize how much more you are worth and how much you deserve. 4
Author Popsicle Posted December 21, 2013 Author Posted December 21, 2013 Absolutely you do!!! But I hope in the process you realize how much more you are worth and how much you deserve. Thank you. I still worry that I may not be attracted to man like I was to him again.
Clay Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Don't I get any credit for extricating myself from this situation? The one thing I have learned is that I never want to experience this ever again. You do deserve credit for avoiding such a horrible situation. I hope you also look at yourself. Take time out for you and figure out the things you like. Look at the good things you offer and value those traits about you. Stand strong and firm on your belief's and don't allow that MM to drag you back into his horrible life. You are better than that. You deserve better. Clay 1
AlwaysGrowing Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Thank you. I still worry that I may not be attracted to man like I was to him again. If that is what you fear/tell yourself...then that is what you will MAKE happen. You need to change the narrative that you tell yourself. Instead of telling yourself that you are half the woman that his wife is. Change the narrative. I am worth more than a relationship with a man who is already committed. I am worth being in a relationship where I am valued. MM was not worthy of me. I kept my self respect and told him to get lost. 3
Author Popsicle Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 You do deserve credit for avoiding such a horrible situation. I hope you also look at yourself. Take time out for you and figure out the things you like. Look at the good things you offer and value those traits about you. Stand strong and firm on your belief's and don't allow that MM to drag you back into his horrible life. You are better than that. You deserve better. Clay If that is what you fear/tell yourself...then that is what you will MAKE happen. You need to change the narrative that you tell yourself. Instead of telling yourself that you are half the woman that his wife is. Change the narrative. I am worth more than a relationship with a man who is already committed. I am worth being in a relationship where I am valued. MM was not worthy of me. I kept my self respect and told him to get lost. I know, you're right. Thanks.
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