VioletBlue Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 About 6 weeks ago I took out a restraining order on my ex. He and his girlfriend (the woman he was cheating on me with when I was pregnant) gang up on me. All verbal and emotional stuff.... I couldn't handle it anymore. My ex contested the restraining order and we had a hearing in court yesterday. My lawyer and I put forward an agreement in exchange for him agreeing to not contact me I would drop the restraining order. He did not agree at first as he did not want a 3rd party for access to our 14 month old. He had no lawyer in court and came across like a complete jerk. I'm just a bit upset as he took the opportunity to have a couple jabs at me. Like saying "I've had the most relaxing and quiet 6 weeks with no dramas" and that he's a foster parent... And then said "I don't want anything to do with either of them" that's he does not want anything to do with me or his own son. He ended up signing the agreement... Why does he feel the need to be so nasty to me?! He's the one who cheated, lied and abandoned his son. I've tried to involved him with his son, but I'm constantly told I'm denying him and that I'm a drama queen always starting dramas. He just refuses to acknowledge any wrongdoing...the really scary thing is after having my baby I was admitted to hospital under suicide watch, that was because of his and his girlfriends behaviour... The girlfriend accused me of harassing her and he believed her. I could be dead today, I really wanted to die... Looking at him right now, he has no one but me... makes me so sad and angry that his father has turned into such an ahole. And the fact that she reeled him in on lies, to turn him against the mother of his only child...
Omei Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 You will be okay, better than okay down the road you will be blessed. My babys father 6 years ago when she was born was an abusive jerk and when I left him he completely abondoned us even ran off to another city, but in the end im glad my child was able to grow up happy in a happy enviroment no fights, no drama just love you are going to love having 100% say in how your child is brought up your bond will be closer and you will be proud that it was all your doing, you'll think back and try to picture your child might of been with an abusive dad verbal or physical whatever type he was and you will feel blessed that you and your child are happy together without what it might of been.
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