rodawaybecky Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Okay so there is this guy who goes to my university he is absolutely gorgeous, I really hope I could get to know him. Initially it was obvious that he was attracted to me. Whenever I caught him looking he would hold my gaze for a few seconds and this has continued for the past 2 weeks. I found that we both have some mutual friends in common so as I was talking to one of them he came over to give her something, looked smiled n walked right past me. I instantly thought this was a sure sign he wasn't interested. However I am always with one of my close guy friends called Kevin and I always get asked if something is going on between us (there isn't, Kevin has a girlfriend and I think of him as a brother) but to the outside world it would seem that we are dating because we always hang out. This was pointed out to me by Kevin himself who knows I'm crushing on this guy. I was wondering why the guy In question hasn't approached me or tried to speak to me. Recently he has been making less and less eye contact with me to the point where I have to look at him first before he looks back. Now I'm beginning to think that he thinks I'm in a relationship with Kevin. One of my female friends suggested that maybe I should wink at him or blow him a kiss to make it clear that I am indeed single & available and it's okay to approach me. What do you guys think? Is this considered to be too bold or would he think I'm ballsy.
Onethirtyeight Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Okay so there is this guy who goes to my university he is absolutely gorgeous, I really hope I could get to know him. Initially it was obvious that he was attracted to me. Whenever I caught him looking he would hold my gaze for a few seconds and this has continued for the past 2 weeks. I found that we both have some mutual friends in common so as I was talking to one of them he came over to give her something, looked smiled n walked right past me. I instantly thought this was a sure sign he wasn't interested. However I am always with one of my close guy friends called Kevin and I always get asked if something is going on between us (there isn't, Kevin has a girlfriend and I think of him as a brother) but to the outside world it would seem that we are dating because we always hang out. This was pointed out to me by Kevin himself who knows I'm crushing on this guy. I was wondering why the guy In question hasn't approached me or tried to speak to me. Recently he has been making less and less eye contact with me to the point where I have to look at him first before he looks back. Now I'm beginning to think that he thinks I'm in a relationship with Kevin. One of my female friends suggested that maybe I should wink at him or blow him a kiss to make it clear that I am indeed single & available and it's okay to approach me. What do you guys think? Is this considered to be too bold or would he think I'm ballsy. You could, you know, talk to him... Its not hard.
todreaminblue Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Okay so there is this guy who goes to my university he is absolutely gorgeous, I really hope I could get to know him. Initially it was obvious that he was attracted to me. Whenever I caught him looking he would hold my gaze for a few seconds and this has continued for the past 2 weeks. I found that we both have some mutual friends in common so as I was talking to one of them he came over to give her something, looked smiled n walked right past me. I instantly thought this was a sure sign he wasn't interested. However I am always with one of my close guy friends called Kevin and I always get asked if something is going on between us (there isn't, Kevin has a girlfriend and I think of him as a brother) but to the outside world it would seem that we are dating because we always hang out. This was pointed out to me by Kevin himself who knows I'm crushing on this guy. I was wondering why the guy In question hasn't approached me or tried to speak to me. Recently he has been making less and less eye contact with me to the point where I have to look at him first before he looks back. Now I'm beginning to think that he thinks I'm in a relationship with Kevin. One of my female friends suggested that maybe I should wink at him or blow him a kiss to make it clear that I am indeed single & available and it's okay to approach me. What do you guys think? Is this considered to be too bold or would he think I'm ballsy. to me that seems awkward..i played a murder game with my girls that i had to wink at someone i happen to like adn kill him...yeah ....awkward....i am not a winker...why not just initiate a conversation...and tell him you arent with kevin casually half way in and if he doesnt believe you tell him to ask kevin..........deb
winny Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 It is not a good idea to wink or blow kisses. You said you have common friends. Why don't you ask anyone out of them to introduce you to him casually and also ask you something like... Hey how is Kevin.. and how is his girl friend..? - in presence of your crush. You can see how he behaves after that....
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