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If a woman rang you back to back 4 times after you'd just put it to answer machine / declined it what would you think would your opinion towards her change at all?

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Yes. Don't tell me you did this with the older guy?

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God no!! I didn't. She did with him whilst he was driving me home. She didn't even leave it a few minutes she rang straight away one after the other repeatedly!

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Why would you decline the phone call to begin with?

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He declined her call. I have no idea why?! Your guess as good as mine :/ he's said he's single so she's not a woman that he's in a relationship with in his mind.

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He declined her call. I have no idea why?! Your guess as good as mine :/ he's said he's single so she's not a woman that he's in a relationship with in his mind.

 

So for all you know, this could have been his mother calling to tell him his father is in the hospital which would explain the multiple calls...?

 

If he is single, who is this guy? friend? Co-worker? potential boyfriend?

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It would turn me off.

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He's a man at work that I'm interested in and there's been chemistry between us past few weeks. He's been asking about me to other colleagues and spending his time with me on work Xmas night out rather than his own team that he manages. His mum is 80 and he has two sons it was at 11ish at night :/

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God no!! I didn't. She did with him whilst he was driving me home. She didn't even leave it a few minutes she rang straight away one after the other repeatedly!

 

 

 

Then it not for you to worry about, thank goodness! It's someone he doesn't want to be bothered with. Just as well, if she's obsessive. Is she an ex?

 

 

So, this means you went on a date with him finally? Congratulations!

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No I haven't gone on a date I hope to bring up our chat about a coffee to arrange a time because he said yes. But I worry that he was just being polite! He's very senior in the company so I have to tread carefully :/

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If a woman rang you back to back 4 times after you'd just put it to answer machine / declined it what would you think would your opinion towards her change at all?

 

I had a friend who called like that worried her boyfriend was cheating on her because he'd be very heavy in love then not answer and have an excuse later, like my phone never even rang! So I wouldn't assume someone was obsessive as a third party.

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It is really annoying.

 

For some women, there is some kind of little logic switch that shuts off. Logic that should explain that if I have my hands full of tools and I'm in the middle of a field somewhere that I can't answer my phone.

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I once woke up one morning to discover my phone had been called 54 times, all in the span of about 30 minutes.

 

That means that person devoted literally every second of that 30 minute period to psychotically dialing my phone. Fifty four times. O_O

 

 

I was completely freaked out

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Would you all still keep seeing that woman if she did that?!

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Watch the movie Swingers and I think you'll have your answer.

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If a woman rang you back to back 4 times after you'd just put it to answer machine / declined it what would you think would your opinion towards her change at all?

 

U r thinking too much about a guy u are not even dating.

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