Bishop556 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I had a dream that my ex would run up to me and would allow me the opportunity for us to discuss our problems and our difficulties, and afterwards be together once again. I never cried as much as I have since I woke up. I don't believe in superstition nonsense, but I feel that this is a sign for me to break no contact to elaborate my feelings to my ex in order to show her that I am a loving human being who is willing to work to whatever end to make her happy. How does anyone else hand reoccurring dreams such as this?
Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I had a dream that my ex would run up to me and would allow me the opportunity for us to discuss our problems and our difficulties, and afterwards be together once again. I never cried as much as I have since I woke up. I don't believe in superstition nonsense, but I feel that this is a sign for me to break no contact to elaborate my feelings to my ex in order to show her that I am a loving human being who is willing to work to whatever end to make her happy. How does anyone else hand reoccurring dreams such as this? it's a "grieving process", nothing more. It doesn't mean anything, except that you miss your ex...Stay strong and continue with NC. It's for your own good. If your ex wants to reconcile or sort the matter out, she would contact you. 1
Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I have a reoccurring dream about me smashing my ex's head against the wall..i'm still subconsciously bothered by the way I was treated that I dream about that...It's annoying, but it will go away...
Author Bishop556 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 I just feel that there were plenty of things unsaid between us. Our relationship was loving until the last two weeks, and this is why I feel devastated. I had plans with this woman to own an apartment together. We were planning to live our lives as college sweethearts. We successful conquered every problem our relationship brought before us until the last fight we had. I just wish to tell her how sorry I am for what occurred and how willing I was to make things right and work through the problems we experienced. Now, she is dating some other guy only a month after our breakup and I feel absolutely devastated. I think this is why I am having more reoccurring dreams about her.
David87 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I just feel that there were plenty of things unsaid between us. Our relationship was loving until the last two weeks, and this is why I feel devastated. I had plans with this woman to own an apartment together. We were planning to live our lives as college sweethearts. We successful conquered every problem our relationship brought before us until the last fight we had. I just wish to tell her how sorry I am for what occurred and how willing I was to make things right and work through the problems we experienced. Now, she is dating some other guy only a month after our breakup and I feel absolutely devastated. I think this is why I am having more reoccurring dreams about her. Move on, she doesn't want to be with you If she is dating a new guy.Keep your dignity and don't be a doormat. Stick with NC.
Zoe Lilith Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I just feel that there were plenty of things unsaid between us. Our relationship was loving until the last two weeks, and this is why I feel devastated. I had plans with this woman to own an apartment together. We were planning to live our lives as college sweethearts. We successful conquered every problem our relationship brought before us until the last fight we had. I just wish to tell her how sorry I am for what occurred and how willing I was to make things right and work through the problems we experienced. Now, she is dating some other guy only a month after our breakup and I feel absolutely devastated. I think this is why I am having more reoccurring dreams about her. I wouldn't contact her if I were you. I made that mistake and regret it to the max...If she loves you and thinks that there are things that haven't been adrressed yet, she will contact you. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I just feel that there were plenty of things unsaid between us. Our relationship was loving until the last two weeks, and this is why I feel devastated. I had plans with this woman to own an apartment together. We were planning to live our lives as college sweethearts. We successful conquered every problem our relationship brought before us until the last fight we had. I just wish to tell her how sorry I am for what occurred and how willing I was to make things right and work through the problems we experienced. Now, she is dating some other guy only a month after our breakup and I feel absolutely devastated. I think this is why I am having more reoccurring dreams about her. Based on the circumstances of your break up, you should never contact her. If she contacts you, then apologize (without begging for a second chance) but otherwise, if you care about her you have to let her be. When you raise a hand to a woman (even if you don't strike her) it's game over.
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