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Ex still has "In a relationship" on his Facebook?


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My ex and I just broke up 3 days ago. I'm the one that initiated it, and I'll admit he did look upset the next day. Kind of like sulking. I broke up with him because he never seemed to have time with me, and whenever I would ask for a chance to do something simple (i.e movies, starbucks, Barnes & Noble..ect.) he would always give am exscuse. It just seemed like it was always an exctivityscuse. I know that some were believable, but it was jut too much to handle; I didn't feel secure. But early in the relationship he would make time regardless and then when weeks of that ended all he could tell me was that he would try. 2 days ago we talked about the break up and he aditted that he just didn't have time for me because of his busy schedule due to his sports acitivity. Which is true, but I knew he could've done more. He told me that it would be unfair to me to keep dragging me along and to be in a relationship with him. Al thw while when he was telling me this his face was red, he was kinda figidy, and he looked as though he looked as though he was going to cry. Now, whenever he's around me he acts all happy, but usually when I catcj a glimpse of him, he'll look unhappy. But when I'm laughing it up with my friends, he'll look over at me with a serious kind of grumpy expression. His friends just look at me, watch what I do, and avoid me. Even guys that weren't even his friends before for some reason are talking to him and are his enterouge. And its odd because these guys are the same ones thay flirted with me before and during my relationship with this guy. My ex was the first one to initiate still being friends which I didn't want but I later sent him a text saying that I wouldn't mind (which I honestly wouldn't because I don't feel bad aboit the breakup, I actually feel relieved) .But later I still changed my status to being single and its been 3 days now and his profile still says 'in a relationship with (my name). I do not understand. Oh, and we were an interracial couple, so my mom highly beliebes that his mom had a lot to do with it. She believes that he was put under a lot of pressure and thay he really doesn't want to let me go. A lot of people did say that when I started goinf with him, people said they could see a change in him because before he was a player.

 

 

So, what is going on with this guy? I'm getting confused

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What difference does it make TO YOU? If you decided to break up then you should concentrate on moving and leaving him behind. His facebook status doesn't have anything to do with you moving on.

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