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Well I dont know if its because the xmas hols have now officially started but I just had the most random of breakdowns walking to my front door was just bowled over and the tears flowed, feel so raw again... I wanted to clean the house this evening now I dont feel like I can do anything.... I thought Id got passed this :-( x

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HEY it happens to the best of us! Stay strong, clean the house! If it needs a clean? Otherwise call a friend or post here! Take care.

 

Well I dont know if its because the xmas hols have now officially started but I just had the most random of breakdowns walking to my front door was just bowled over and the tears flowed, feel so raw again... I wanted to clean the house this evening now I dont feel like I can do anything.... I thought Id got passed this :-( x
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Thank you Haydn x Yea it definitely needs a clean Ive put it off for 5 months lol I suppose a random breakdown is better than crying everyday like I did at the beginning... I can remember exactly what I was doing this time last year... I dread to think what xmas day is going to be like!... deep breaths.... now where's the cleaning stuff... x

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I find Cif a superior cleaning product when it comes to getting rid of those so called permanent marks. Washes everything out! Also a a good dettox spray always solved a lot of issues.... Happy cleaning and post once you have finished the kitchen! Take care.

 

Thank you Haydn x Yea it definitely needs a clean Ive put it off for 5 months lol I suppose a random breakdown is better than crying everyday like I did at the beginning... I can remember exactly what I was doing this time last year... I dread to think what xmas day is going to be like!... deep breaths.... now where's the cleaning stuff... x
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Thank you Haydn x Yea it definitely needs a clean Ive put it off for 5 months lol I suppose a random breakdown is better than crying everyday like I did at the beginning... I can remember exactly what I was doing this time last year... I dread to think what xmas day is going to be like!... deep breaths.... now where's the cleaning stuff... x

 

It could be the fact that this is because Xmas is approaching, you're right. I found myself going down the same line, with the difference that I feel angry rather than sad.

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I'm so sorry. I was thinking about it last night so I obligated myself to volunteer at a homeless shelter Christmas Eve. I hope I am so busy and so overwhelmed at the people who are far worse off than me, that it will make me feel bad for even feeling sorry for myself. Here's hoping...

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Thats a really noble thing to do. I like this at xmas. Well done you friend!

 

 

I'm so sorry. I was thinking about it last night so I obligated myself to volunteer at a homeless shelter Christmas Eve. I hope I am so busy and so overwhelmed at the people who are far worse off than me, that it will make me feel bad for even feeling sorry for myself. Here's hoping...
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we're all in for days like that!! you aren't alone in this. we're all going to experience slip ups now and again, but they will get fewer and further between.

 

My mum has been such a fountain of wisdom...my dad walked out on her one day after 25 years together. 9 years ago this Christmas. (why Christmas!? i'll never understand men) When things are getting too much for me she always says 'one day at a time'. When you are down don't think further than the end of the day. Your mind will do somersaults if you let it.

 

so yeah, pick yourself up and clean the house if you feel up to it! A little bit at a time :)

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