Eternal Sunshine Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Someone that you don't find attractive and is say 20 years older or something and he keeps staring at you. I don't mean just checks you out but constant staring at your boobs, legs, licking his lips etc when say you are on a train. I feel violated 5
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 That's gonna be me in 20 years. Somehow I don't doubt that 4
todreaminblue Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 i would look once see it ....i woudl probably smile as sweet as i could say hello to bring the eyes up a bit to mine and give a nod.......to show that i want to be respected......if i was uncomfortabel with being ogled...... that i seen it isnt any different to some guy staring at my ass and i dont see it.but i can feel it....i just dont look back...........it happens..........often if you acknowledge a look you can stop it.........and i would not look again.........i would go into lala land for a while....quite easy for me.....old men are young men in an aging body....they have desire and admire women as much as the guy with a fit body and a younger appearance...i find neither creepy....socially inept yes......so i try to do the right thing socially and change a view.......and a mind from whatever si on it.....a how are you......automatically makes them think of how they are or how their day has been
Elliotte Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Yea, but if it was a guy you found attractive, you wouldn't be creeped out right? 4
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 Yea, but if it was a guy you found attractive, you wouldn't be creeped out right? Ha probably not. Then it would be hot 2
regine_phalange Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Yes. I really wish they were only 20 years older though, usually they are about 70 or 80 years old. I have the old men magnet! 1
SJC2008 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Depends on the woman in the situation I guess. I had a thread about a late 30's/early 40's guy making a sexual innuendo to a 19 year old cashier which I thought was creepy and I got tarred and featherd.
Noproblem Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 It would make me feel disgusted and angry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted December 20, 2013 Author Posted December 20, 2013 I am talking older than my dad 1
ponchsox Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Dirty old men. They have nothing to lose 3
blueskyday Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Yuck. The worst! I don't even smile at a guy like that. I did once, in a store where a creepy old guy was staring and smiling. I saw he was with his wife. Figured he would cut it out if I smiled and acknowledged him. Wrong! It only encouraged him. He brushed his hand across my a$$ as he walked out of the store! Ewwww! He said it was an "accident." I was furious. Now I give a guy like that a hard stare. No smile. A gentleman doesn't act that like. It's disrespectful to say the least. If the guy keeps doing it after my dirty look, then I give him the middle finger and call him a creeper. It's not nice, but I feel better. 1
Kate9292 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Someone that you don't find attractive and is say 20 years older or something and he keeps staring at you. I don't mean just checks you out but constant staring at your boobs, legs, licking his lips etc when say you are on a train. I feel violated Ugh, creeps. They see hot body and believe they have a chance. Delusional at it's finest. It's one thing if they just stare. Quite another when they actually start hitting on you. Yuck. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Yes that would breep me out & on a train, I'd change cars. Problem solved. 1
BillJJ Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I am not a woman but I have met older women (in their 40s and 50s) after shows who have strangely been all googly eyed with me and I am not creeped out by it but I just think it is weird.
rocketman122 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 who cares. do I get creeped out when really fat and neglected old women sent me messages when I was on old? no, I reply back, no thank you and move on. big deal..
theothersully Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 What a funny thread. When old women come up to flirt with me, I take it as a compliment. They even smack your ass on occasion. But if they were staring, I'd be a bit creeped out too! I even had a huge group of moms and daughters who were shopping at Macy's recently accost me. I was in line for a bus with them. NJ Transit bus from Port Authority. So the daughters were kinda flirting with me, but I'm closer to the age of all the moms. I act gentlemanly and say, "you go ahead" letting them onto the bus. Then one of the moms says, "no you go. we want to watch your butt as you walk up the stairs." lolol It's a little awkward in front of a big group,, but I just take it as a compliment and laughed it off. But if people are just leering, that's gross.
Elliotte Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Ha probably not. Then it would be hot Haha exactly! Sadly not everyone who checks you out is going to be someone you find attractive, or even have the social awareness to not stare. And for every one you catch, there's probably a dozen stolen glances at your rear that you miss! 1
jba10582 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 huge group of moms and daughters I grew up with two sisters who had constantly complain about men staring at them, so I get to hear about it to know this dynamic all to well. However, when females get in larger groups with other females and see an attractive male, especially one that is by himeself, in that moment, they get a LOT more brave...so it is funny, that this very thing DOES happen in reverse. 2
carhill Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Since the thread is for women, I'll keep my observation brief: Men who stare at women's 'parts' have no way of knowing whether or not the woman finds them attractive and, by the OP's own admission, such staring, if she finds the man attractive, would apparently 'be hot'. The men who stare stand a markedly greater chance of being noticed and remembered. For a man, there's no surer death than being invisible. It's a crap shoot which men generally learn as boys. The most successful (with women) amongst us hone it to a fine and polished edge. It works. 1
theothersully Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I grew up with two sisters who had constantly complain about men staring at them, so I get to hear about it to know this dynamic all to well. However, when females get in larger groups with other females and see an attractive male, especially one that is by himeself, in that moment, they get a LOT more brave...so it is funny, that this very thing DOES happen in reverse. True. The part that surprised me was this.... I figured the moms were going to get mad that the 18-20 or so yo daughters kept talking with me. That I should ignore them. I was kinda nervous about that. I never thought they would join in! ha ha ha
Green Light Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I still think that the creeper concept is insulting because now you are lumping guys who you are not attracted to in with stalkers, rapists, and other sexual deviants. Staring at and hitting on a person is ok unless the recipient has given some CLEAR signal that it is not ok. How else is a guy supposed to show interest? If you are not attracted to him won't everything he does appear creepy? If his behavior continues after you have expressed disappoval then that person is truly a "creep." 3
veggirl Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Staring and licking lips is disgusting and inappropriate no matter WHO is doing it, unless it's my boyfriend. I'd be disgusted by an old man doing that, a young hot guy, and anyone in between. More class, less crass.........really freakin needed in today's world. Ugh. I hate people, a lot. 3
GoreSP Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Someone that you don't find attractive and is say 20 years older or something and he keeps staring at you. I don't mean just checks you out but constant staring at your boobs, legs, licking his lips etc when say you are on a train. I feel violated Would you feel as violated if the guy was incredibly hot? If that's the case, I find this kind of hypocritical... To answer the question : I am never aware of my surroundings enough to notice this kind of behaviour. And when I do, I quickly go back to my not being aware of my surroundings and forget about it.
OrangeSnack Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Omg. My dad does that and he's 58. It's really really creepy because he does it when they aren't looking. I love him and he is a funny guy but the way he stares at a good looking person is pretty creepy/funny. My mom get's pretty PO'ed about it. I'm sure he does it to spite my mom haha.
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